My ex ended with me all of a sudden last January.

I'm still not over her, not been a day without thinking about her, even just now I had a dream and she was in it. I am actually embarrassed by this, but however much I try not to think about her, she comes into my mind, dreams, everything.

It is worse every time I go out meeting new people as as stupid as it sounds, I don't meet anyone that I had such a laugh with, anyone as pretty etc.. the usual BS. I know me and my ex clicked so well, just distance sucked after college, so she couldnt handle it. But everytime I go out I backslide into thinking about her.

I'm going out tonight on a work party. I am going to try meet some new girls and be very open minded. I can't see it happening though. But I know for sure I just wish I could fall out of love with her and get over her. This is stupid being over a year and 3 months since I last even saw her!

I've tried concentrating on my work, working up to 90 hours a week, been travelling, moved house, changing my lifestyle, and it's just not working.

Anyone got any other suggestions?

No.

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I feel ya man.. last breakup was brutal relationship of 3 years ended 2.5 years ago and I am just now pulling myself out of it.

I have started exercising to get back in the game, focusing more on my life. She in the meantime has had 3 bf so far and has gotten cheated on 3 times, so I would say maybe she became a slut.

Hurts me a lot for the fact that I can't believe I still think about her but only recently I have blocked all means of communication with her. So there is progress.

Attachments can linger indefinitely until you've removed yourself from that person's life. Doesn't surprise me you're only getting over it now as you'd have had some sort of contact with her in all this time.


On another note, 3 boyfriends in 2.5 years, how does that make your ex a slut? Come on now, that's infantile thinking. If this was you (or any guy for that matter) who had 3 girlfriends in that time, people would applaud you. So maybe she's trying to find the right guy for her, and yet she's a slut? You're telling yourself that to get over her, least be honest with yourself about that.

It was a strange night out in the end. And the first that I was not depressed the next day.

I chatted to lots of girls and had fun. A few feminazis around which were rude cunts to me but meh.

Anyway, ran into some girl, quite feisty and don't think there is anything there as she has a kid. But she is 23 and really attractive girl, we had a few kisses and I rubbed her up a bit when the smoke machine was on in the club.

Her fat friend was a cock blocked and dragged her off but shes messaged me a few times.Might see if she wants to do something this week, hang out or what ever, she's got a big of baggage if you want to put it that way, but maybe its good if i am open minded and just learn to get to know someone new. Maybe just friends, maybe nothing but see how it goes.

OP's thread history:
Just how am i not over her?!?! Serious. [Today]
Moving on... [21.12.2015]
Obsessing over what may have happened. [06.11.2015]
Back sliding - Can't stop thinking of my EX. [12.10.2015]
Her Past [28.09.2015]
Can I Win My Ex Back [18.08.2015]
Winning my ex back [21.08.2015]

You've gotten the SAME advice countless times. You know why? Because you create the SAME god damn topic every month.
What the fuck do you even want from us?
The definition of insanity is trying the same shit over and over again, expecting different results.

Stop wasting our time.

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So long as as you "keep" trying to meet someone else or find someone else its not going to work because you'll still have this girl on your mind. A pimple turns into a dimple when you're in love so that pedestal that you currently have this girl on is completely unrealistic. And if she were to suddenly show up at your door in tears begging for you back you would begin to realize just how flawed she actually is.

It sounds like to be you have yet come to grips with the reality that that situation is over. I don't think you need to go out approaching like crazy so much as you need to take time and understand that it is done. And that moving on is your only option.

Contrary to what you may believe because of your emotional state she is not the greatest girl in the world. She's not even the greatest girl for you. You currently know more about yourself, are more experienced, and as a result you are in a better position to do better for yourself.

I do have to ask though.. How many women have you been with since last January?

P.S. she didn't leave you because she couldn't handle the distance; she left you because you couldn't.

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