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Women seem to want security. At least that's what they yell whenever he approach's them.
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Get some morals. Don't go after women who have a boyfriend. Things like 'boyfriend destroyers' piss me off. They're glorified by beta guys with low self-esteem who fantasize about stealing a woman who is in a relationship.

There are so many millions of hot, single women out there. For a guy to go full-wuss and be obsessed with one woman who's taken and wants to ruin her relationship for his own selfish desires is just pathetic.

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Get some morals. Don't go after women who have a boyfriend. Things like 'boyfriend destroyers' piss me off. They're glorified by beta guys with low self-esteem who fantasize about stealing a woman who is in a relationship.

There are so many millions of hot, single women out there. For a guy to go full-wuss and be obsessed with one woman who's taken and wants to ruin her relationship for his own selfish desires is just pathetic.
Julien Blanc disagrees.

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Get some morals. Don't go after women who have a boyfriend. Things like 'boyfriend destroyers' piss me off. They're glorified by beta guys with low self-esteem who fantasize about stealing a woman who is in a relationship.

There are so many millions of hot, single women out there. For a guy to go full-wuss and be obsessed with one woman who's taken and wants to ruin her relationship for his own selfish desires is just pathetic.
Julien Blanc disagrees.
Here's an article that shows what a stand-up guy he is: http://time.com/3578387/julien-blanc-fe ... -dynamics/

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Get some morals. Don't go after women who have a boyfriend. Things like 'boyfriend destroyers' piss me off. They're glorified by beta guys with low self-esteem who fantasize about stealing a woman who is in a relationship.

There are so many millions of hot, single women out there. For a guy to go full-wuss and be obsessed with one woman who's taken and wants to ruin her relationship for his own selfish desires is just pathetic.
Julien Blanc disagrees.
Here's an article that shows what a stand-up guy he is: http://time.com/3578387/julien-blanc-fe ... -dynamics/
Thanks for posting that. This guy is complete trash and gives the PUA community an even worse name than it's given itself.


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Julien really isn't so bad. He's not an amazing role model and he's definitely not to be taken too seriously... but even Gambler gets hate when women discover him. Innocent little Gambler, lol.

"Just brush your hand past her breasts and she wont even realise but it'll still turn her on" - Gambler.

Don't get me wrong; I think Gamblers one of the best coaches out there. I'm just saying that they all get hate that they don't deserve from certain angles.

As for Roosh, guy should shoot himself in the fucking face.

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There is a difference between girls lie that they have a BF and ones that actually have a boyfriend. There is no such thing as "BF Destroyer". The former is a shit test - this could be due to she's not used to being hit on on the streets, she's not sure about you yet, etc... could be million reasons. The ones you've been reading "oh I have 2 goldfishes", "Oh I have math test tomorrow" is just there to test the water to see if she does actually have a bf or not.

If she does indeed have a bf, no amount of game can change her mind about him. They've been through so much together comparing to a guy whom she just met for few minutes. Unless she's giving hint that he's shitty and she's ready to leave anytime. With that said, if she LOVES her boyfriend and can't stop talking about him, just move on. But don't burn bridge. Keep her as platonic friend. Chances are she have other hot friends.

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Get some morals. Don't go after women who have a boyfriend. Things like 'boyfriend destroyers' piss me off. They're glorified by beta guys with low self-esteem who fantasize about stealing a woman who is in a relationship.

There are so many millions of hot, single women out there. For a guy to go full-wuss and be obsessed with one woman who's taken and wants to ruin her relationship for his own selfish desires is just pathetic.

So true, when a girl tells you she has a BF your only concern should be finding out if it's the truth or whether it's an "alpha credentials" shit test or an autopilot response.

If they do have a BF then flirt with them a bit then leave them alone. Don't burn any bridges as the next time you see them they may not have a BF and even if they do they may be with some hot friends who don't.


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So true, when a girl tells you she has a BF your only concern should be finding out if it's the truth or whether it's an "alpha credentials" shit test or an autopilot response.
Lol, what?

If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend her intentions are clear. Doesn't matter if it's truth or made up, she's not interested.

If she were, you'd be finding out about the boyfriend somewhere inbetween the cab ride back to yours and the after-sex shower.

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So true, when a girl tells you she has a BF your only concern should be finding out if it's the truth or whether it's an "alpha credentials" shit test or an autopilot response.
Lol, what?

If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend her intentions are clear. Doesn't matter if it's truth or made up, she's not interested.

If she were, you'd be finding out about the boyfriend somewhere inbetween the cab ride back to yours and the after-sex shower.

Wrong. She is saying she has a bf to test how alpha you are...because alphas go after taken women. Well, desperate guys without abundance will still persist even if she has a bf, but she can distinguish alpha from low options. Lol. Wouldnt an "alpha" just find another woman easily because he's confident he can? You do know that desperate guys persist past bf objections right?


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Most of the time if a woman tells you she has a BF then she isn't interested. Sometimes shes tellign you so you know to be descreet. You have to have the social attunement to know which is which when she brings up the BF.

The biggest thing is just to escalate. She resisiting? Probably not interested...

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If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend her intentions are clear. Doesn't matter if it's truth or made up, she's not interested.
If only it were that simple. "I have a boyfriend" is the most common autopilot there is. The caveat for it being an autopilot is that it's said in the first minute of the interaction.

If it's a 9 or a 10 and it's not true (as most do have boyfriends) then it's simply a time management response to prevent her time being monopolised by guys whom she thinks she will have no interest in.

In my early days if I heard the "I have a boyfriend" response I used to just assume it was true and go sarge other girls. The thing is though: later in the night I used to see these very same girls with their tongue down some other guys throat and think WTF.

The other guys had persisted and had hit paydirt. It confused the hell out of me how these guys were managing to steal another guy's woman and how they did it, so I swallowed my pride and asked the two hottest women I knew from my social circle. The answer of course was "They don't have BF's".

Or as one put it: "You know when you're out shopping in Newcastle and some guy comes up to you and says 'can you spare any change?' what do you say? (my reply being "sorry mate I don't have any")

And her response "and are you telling the truth or do you just want to get rid of someone who is bothering you" I knew exactly what she meant.

Seriously: If you hear the "I have a boyfriend" then just keep chatting till you can find out if it's true.


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If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend her intentions are clear. Doesn't matter if it's truth or made up, she's not interested.
If only it were that simple. "I have a boyfriend" is the most common autopilot there is. The caveat for it being an autopilot is that it's said in the first minute of the interaction.

If it's a 9 or a 10 and it's not true (as most do have boyfriends) then it's simply a time management response to prevent her time being monopolised by guys whom she thinks she will have no interest in.

In my early days if I heard the "I have a boyfriend" response I used to just assume it was true and go sarge other girls. The thing is though: later in the night I used to see these very same girls with their tongue down some other guys throat and think WTF.

The other guys had persisted and had hit paydirt. It confused the hell out of me how these guys were managing to steal another guy's woman and how they did it, so I swallowed my pride and asked the two hottest women I knew from my social circle. The answer of course was "They don't have BF's".

Or as one put it: "You know when you're out shopping in Newcastle and some guy comes up to you and says 'can you spare any change?' what do you say? (my reply being "sorry mate I don't have any")

And her response "and are you telling the truth or do you just want to get rid of someone who is bothering you" I knew exactly what she meant.

Seriously: If you hear the "I have a boyfriend" then just keep chatting till you can find out if it's true.
It's not an autopilot response if she doesn't have a boyfriend. It's a disinterested response that is to say "You have no chance with me." Just like saying, "sorry mate I don't have any" is the same as "if I did have some change, I wouldn't give any to you." Both responses are designed so the person responding doesn't look like a bad guy while cutting off the purpose for the conversation.

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If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend her intentions are clear. Doesn't matter if it's truth or made up, she's not interested.
If only it were that simple. "I have a boyfriend" is the most common autopilot there is. The caveat for it being an autopilot is that it's said in the first minute of the interaction.

If it's a 9 or a 10 and it's not true (as most do have boyfriends) then it's simply a time management response to prevent her time being monopolised by guys whom she thinks she will have no interest in.

In my early days if I heard the "I have a boyfriend" response I used to just assume it was true and go sarge other girls. The thing is though: later in the night I used to see these very same girls with their tongue down some other guys throat and think WTF.

The other guys had persisted and had hit paydirt. It confused the hell out of me how these guys were managing to steal another guy's woman and how they did it, so I swallowed my pride and asked the two hottest women I knew from my social circle. The answer of course was "They don't have BF's".

Or as one put it: "You know when you're out shopping in Newcastle and some guy comes up to you and says 'can you spare any change?' what do you say? (my reply being "sorry mate I don't have any")

And her response "and are you telling the truth or do you just want to get rid of someone who is bothering you" I knew exactly what she meant.

Seriously: If you hear the "I have a boyfriend" then just keep chatting till you can find out if it's true.
It's not an autopilot response if she doesn't have a boyfriend. It's a disinterested response that is to say "You have no chance with me." Just like saying, "sorry mate I don't have any" is the same as "if I did have some change, I wouldn't give any to you." Both responses are designed so person responding doesn't look like a bad guy while cutting off the purpose for the conversation.
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The other guys had persisted and had hit paydirt. It confused the hell out of me how these guys were managing to steal another guy's woman and how they did it, so I swallowed my pride and asked the two hottest women I knew from my social circle. The answer of course was "They don't have BF's".
Maybe those guys just didnt get "I have a bf." Girl's not interested in you, she says "I have a bf" so you leave. Guy who she is interested approaches her, she doesnt say anything about a bf and just proceeds. Unless youve heard girls tell guys they have a bf and they persist and get to makeout, its not the same thing to assume that those guys got the same reaction you did and they just persisted past it.


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