From time to time i think about how much i want to come back to pick up. How much i want to just leave my house at 2am just to go and get a girl and try to bring her back (I live in a highly populated town of girls, next to the town centre). How much i just miss gaming girls in general, from the IOI's to getting the lay.

The reason I miss it is because im in a relationship. I've only been in a relationship 3 months so far, known her for nearly 4 years though. In fact, she was an ex of mine a while back but split because she was pretty insecure. But she never fallen out of love with me, she says, after around 18 months apart. During the 18 months barely any words were exchange because i just completely pulled away. We got back together though because she changed a fair amount. More relaxed, less insecure. Just all round a much better and attractive person to be with.

Ultimately though, i feel like being in a relationship leads to big missed opportunity. I go out sometimes and find that girls will sometimes hit on me, giving me shit load of IOI's. I see my friends who are single sometimes getting kisses/numbers on a night out somewhat boasting and i'm thinking 'fuck, I could probably be bringing them back home'. Simply put, i feel like i'm not ready to retire from pick up. I'm fairly young and want to approach every hot girl in sight. But at the same time i have this beautiful girlfriend who will simply do anything for me.

It's not really a major dilemma, but i'm questioning what i'm doing from time to time. Would I be overall happy if i stayed in a relationship? Of course, but I wouldn't be happy when i walk past a HB10 and cant approach and have fun, or hit on a HB when she throws tonnes of IOI's at me on a night out. in fact, I'm writing this at 2am now because i'm sitting here wanting to go out and just try and get a ONS.

What do I do? I know pick up will always be there, but i'm only young for so long. The excitement at this age is the perfect age for pick up. Reading this back is almost as if im answering my own question but i want to view it from many different angles and perspectives.

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I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go

There is something wrong in the relationship if you ask yourself this while you are with a girl. I suggest you think crefully about it and either:
a)dump her;
b)try an open relationship;
c)stay with her and ignore all the girls you see around.

See pros andcons for all of these and think about it.

You gotta be true to yourself man. To live honestly with respect to your desires.

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Yeah man... this is just a moral decision you've gotta make.

Living a double life is hard and stressful. I'd suggest you just be honest with her.

It sounds like you are leaning towards pick up. If you aren't serious about your girlfriend then let her go. No reason to take her through an emotional roller coaster. I won't make that decision for you. Let me tell you that I was gamy even the beginning of my previous relationship a year ago. I had the same thoughts, at certain points I couldn't really figure out if I should flirt or not with the girls I met in my life other than my girlfriend at the time. It was tough, I either was happy or not happy at certain points

Morally I was at crossroads. Then again, I didn't know much about relationships and I am only 23. Can't really say I am fully mature, and I am being honest. Up to you though.

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Honestly bro,

You would be surprised at how much a woman is willing to accept if you would just communicate with her and stand firm.

I'm willing to bet that if you had this same conversation with her that you had with yourself, she would consider allowing you to go out and get that ONS every once in a while. I've had my share of chicks do this, because this a way I make money for one, and because I simply loved the life.

You have to think about it..

Every moment of a guys life we're trying to get pussy. Or we're thinking about trying to get pussy. Thats our reality. We're out approaching and speaking with women every day trying to get laid.

Every moment of a woman life she isn't. She's rounding entertaining guys, but she's just waiting for that ONE guy to make her happy.

So once you're in a relationship you're naturally behaviors for the past 10+ years don't just turn off. You're still in that mindset subconsciously. The mindset she is in didn't have to change. The only thing that changed was the mindset you had.

Its not really a fair deal when you think about it.

Ask a woman " Why haven't you fucked 1,000 guys yet?" and she'll probably say something like " Eww thats disgusting"

Ask a guy " Why haven't you fucked 1,000 girls yet?" and he'll say something like " I just haven't had the time to" or " I'm trying "

We're just wired a bit differently and I understand this which is why I'm not as accepting of the concept of a girl I'm with stepping out on me the same way as she should be accepting of me stepping out on her. Because if fucking a bunch of guys is what she really wanted she would have done it before she met me. But she wasn't (At least the women I tend to deal with), and I WAS before I met her.

Its an interesting thing, but I think you guys should just have that talk.

Hell, you should at least try if you're going to toss the relationship anyway.

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Eddie you have to find that post...about that girlfriend thing lol. I'll try to look tomorrow for it. I'm curious

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