So a girl I've met about 4 times including an f close on the 2nd, didn't message much this last week, then asked me if I wanted to "come over later".

My reply was after an hour...
Me: I'm shopping but will be free after 6.30pm

Her: Babe why you take so long to reply haha, I'm at my parents now

Me: it was 50 mins... so not free later?

She didn't reply.

I sent a snapchat about something she gave me last time I was at hers (an attempt to show that I'm not pissed off etc)

She opened it and still.. no reply.


So...

1. Is she not that interested and just wanted to have some sort of plans? If so.. how do I fix that over text if she barely replies?

2. Do I send her a message at some point rearranging the date/meet up?

3. I'm a nice guy but maybe she thinks I'm.. too nice? How to combat this without being a dick to her?

Thanks in advance for any replies and feedback, will try to reply when I can (time difference between here in the UK and the US is a bummer)

Translation: "I'm on my way to another guy's house."

I wonder why.

Consider that a double text or a "plz respond". A different social media app counts as stringing responses.



If you were dominating her in bed and giving orgasms, she would reply right away and not be considering other men. You fix it by showing up better in person, not text.



Wait for her to respond. When she does, arrange a meet and lead in the bedroom with passion. Game other women.

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Sounds like her one response was a playful way of saying she don't like you to take forever to reply and now she is going to make you wait. You can either choose to wait or move on, but stop messaging her.

She wasn't seeing another guy as she was still uploading snapchats of her parents dogs etc as well as viewing my story too (still annoying as hell though)

So I definitely shouldnt try and arrange a meet up today? Just wait for her to text back?

I need something to break the routine a little if we do meet up, been at hers a lot because she's been moving into a new place and it's probably got repetitive just me going around and us watching a movie etc whilst chatting. Not sure what I'd do to break that routine though, pick her up and take her to the bedroom instead? Haha

You've been on 4 dates man, what are you talking about routine?
Go bawling or whatever if you wanna include some activity but there's no routine to speak off at this stage.

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You've been around her for a bit. You have to step up and be a man and lead. She doesn't want to do all the scheduling and stuff. If you lead she will follow.

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Arranged bowling last week and she cancelled because of her wisdom tooth pain/emergency dentist appt (legit, but could have re organsised)
How do I do this though? She hasn't replied to my last message, do I message her tonight? Thought the rule of thumb was to let her seek you out after a couple of days of not messaging her etc..

Wait for her to message you back. Date other girls in the meantime.

Most women see this as foreplay early on...the more patient a man is, the more he conveys he's emotionally centered. This is hot for them because 95% of men are needy and blowing up their phone.

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Do I date other girls and be honest about it or keep it quiet? This is something I've wondered for a long time.

Yeah. Do what you like. You don't owe anyone an explanation unless you're exclusive with a girl.

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Yeah this is the common mistake of the average/nice guy- you haven't promised anything to anyone so it's none of their business.

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Sounds good, when do you guys message her instead? Never? Or is it only when you're both on a neutral grounding of such/ after a certain number of days?

I'm onto the dating other girls part now but they all seem like a huge effort compared to her (in terms of actually meeting, she has her own place, not too far away, its just.. easier than the rest)

Thanks for all of you guys' input.