You know what I'd do?

I'd drop contact. Stop initiating contact with her. And when she texts me I'd ask her out for drinks.

She might re-initiate contact in 2 weeks or 2 hours.

If she refuses, I'd just drop contact again until she contacts me again and then repeat the invitation.

Eventually she'll either stop contacting you altogether, and you'll know she was never interested more than a friend, or she'll go out with you giving you the chance to escalate.

she is willing to go out with me and do things; that's not the problem

also isn't no communication different than disinterest?

Yeah, the problem is you not making a move.
Why would you want to show disinterest?

You want to show non-neediness, not disinterest.

You should definitely show interest especially interest in fucking her.
Remember just to show her through your actions not words.

Stopping to initiate contact doesn't show disinterest, if you do escalate each time you do interact with her.
It shows non-neediness.

Now if you never contact her, then she contacts you and you either brush her off quickly or do the opposite and make boring small talk for 30 minutes, then yeah, she'll think you're not interested and move on.

But if she contacts you and you're

"Hey! I was just starting to miss you! (Or better some flirty inside joke you have)
Been extra busy lately so how about we catch up tonight over drinks?"
(or if it wasn't such a long time since the last time you two spoke then "Something great happened to me today so let's go out and celebrate!", whatever just adapt it)

Then not only do you show interest but you also create the perfect opportunity to escalate.

If she's interested she'll either accept or propose some other time.
If not she'll refuse, at which point you either say "Cool, see you later." or not respond at all.

Why not just making your goal to fuck her. This is the recipe for friend zone. You are WAY over complicating this shit. Just be a Trump and grab that pussy.

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This. If you're not already fucking for 3-4 months don't even think "relationship". And don't think it even if you are. Let her bring that subject to the table.

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we aren't talking about a relationship; just general view points; she's asked me alot of screening questions and about my history....she asked what I was looking for and what I wanted with her....my response to her was it's really too early to tell...

however when I was drunk (I'm also a idiot) I messaged her one day saying Hey "you seem like you might have something special that can't be explained"

I've given her too much sentiments and attention...And I need to get back to being my true asshole self; don't know what has come over me

I'm wondering should I wait for her to contact me or should I contact her?(the last time we chatted was saturday)

**SIGH**

You make your intention clear.

E - "Every time I close my eyes…I see you naked…just so ya know…I'd like seeing you naked with my eyes open even more;)"

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So just wait? then or wait and invite her out and dont make it a friend setting?

does sending her videos that denote value come across as ametuer? I consider it better to show value in real life rather than over text

is there a recovery for this situation?

What the hell is a video that denotes value?

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nevermind... what do you suggest?

Messaging is for:

A. Flirting

B. Arranging a meet up.

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yeah I'm aware... we also talk on the phone... she answers my calls) i mean we chat 1-3 times a week.. and I feel like that's too much

What's your actual question?

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RC what do you suggest I do at this point with this girl???? she never stops communication even when I offend her, so I'm assuming there is some interest... if i stop all contact does it leave this in friend zone?... Yeah I agree with your earlier comment.... having the mindset that your interested in a relationship with a person when you haven't banged them for 3-6months is crazy....


Not to be gamey but I thought I should give her a double sided compliment or disqualify her
I thought about inviting her out to a place where a friends girl friend might come up to me in a seductive way, and then tell her hey you look beautiful but if you wore that you would be sexxy... or does that break away from character

also thought about texting her ...hey do you think you might be too nice???...