Hi guys, new to the forum.

Is it a good mindset to always aim for the fuck on the first date? Been getting mixed results, sometimes they come home, sometimes they're like "no fucking way". So I'm wondering if there are certain signals one can recognize in order to calibrate on the spot and avoid looking like a horndog in the "no fucking way" cases.

A probably relevant detail: I'm 40 so I only do online dating, which means my first date is always DAY 1. It always starts with me being the stranger she just met on the internet.

I'd appreciate any input/experiences you may have. Thanks.

I'd appreciate any input/experiences you may have. Thanks.

It is a decent mindset to have. I would recommend having a condom in your wallet or whatever. This gives you a beter mindset without focusing to much on having sex (wich could become your downfall while seducing)

If they give you the ''no fucking way'' and you are already in your bed at your house use a ''total freeze out''. Let her work for you. She gets uncomfortable and wants to seduce you.

Im also new to the society but I did a lot of reading and watching etc.

Good of luck!

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Escalate to phone sex before Day 1. This way, a girl who meets up with you is ready to fuck. It's what I do with online gaming.

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Yes it's a good mindset.

They won't think you're a horndog if you aren't one. Flirt, be sexual, but also be playful and light about it. The horndog vibe comes from cheesy pressure and over-aggression.

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Awesome, that helps. Thanks, guys.

Works just as well with any venue where you collect a number.

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What is this shit? I'm 40, and date a 21 year old whom I met at a bar. All of my gf's and flings the last five years are 20-somethings, and I met them all in public.

Regardless, remain playful, teasing and fun. Escalate to sexual innuendo, then escalate home.

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Ha, yeah, good point. Guess I could try some solo sarging (my friends are married). Not in a hurry though, since online is working well for me, but I suspect I could get younger/hotter girls if I go out there. Thanks for the advice.

You should always express attraction towards the girl. Even if it doesn't result in sex, you are making sure you let the girl know you find her desirable and at some point you guys are going to fuck.

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Do you specify that you're not looking for anything serious? If so and they are still going out with you, you must be doing something *really* off during the dates.

If you're just going out on a date with no specification of casual sex / LTR / whatever then you aren't building enough chemistry or attraction with them during the date, or they are resisting sleeping with you that soon to avoid looking like easy sluts.

You're welcome to go into the date with the 'aim to fuck after' mindset but don't overdo how hard you push for it, or they might ghost and now date 2 for you.

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Sometimes everything is good, and sometimes its not. Nothing has a 100% success rate, so i'd say absolutely. Especially if you're not looking for anything beyond that.

I personally have went on a physically date is less than 10% of the women i've ended up sleeping with from online. Ironically enough, those the few women that i went out with ended up being a tad bit more than just a few hits and quits. I usually just get them on the phone, FaceTime, or SPAM and invite them over the next day or two after talking and building comfort for an hour or two.

That SPAM call is my day 1. And day 2 is at my house more often than not.

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Nope, I'm not specifying my intentions in relation to casual sex or LTR. Thanks for the additional input, guys.