Guys are so afraid of this, but it actually makes women more comfortable than tentative, fearful hemming and hawing.

It can take a long time to naturally behave this way. But once you get it, you "get it". And women respond very well.

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Also moose, get out of your parent's place. Even a shitty studio apartment with nothing in it will be a bigger turn on for women, and will provide an inner confidence that they pick up on in you.

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True but you will never know what you capable of until you try and escape your comfort zone, it took me a while to start escalating and doing what ever I feel like doing when i'm around women, I advice that LEADING and Escalating should be any PUA's main focus. LEAD and always ESCALATE it will naturally come to you how to do it naturally and properly. practice, practice, practice till you get the hang of it.

Yeah leading and escalation is definitely something I need to majorly improve on! It just feels like I'll never understand this stuff!

I find it a lot easier on girls I'm not that interested in, there was a girl I met online we started making out on the first date, however I had no interest in her and just seen it as hooking up.i met a her couple of times after but there wasn't much there. Still an achievement for me to make out on first date.

Well this girl is pissing me off, she will reply to me but gives one word answers. I'm heavily focusing on my mission just now getting ripped in the gym, getting a better job, moving out. These are all priorities.

The inner confidence of having your own place combined with hitting weights will power you through some nice lays as you begin to fine tune your game. You'll do well.

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Yeah I'm sure it will, it's true what Corey Wayne says when you go about your mission and purpose girls start contacting you. This has always been the case for me.

I was out with my friends last night, which I put on my Facebook 10 minutes later she messaged me and she hasn't Iniated contact all week.


I waited when I got home to message her back, but she said about two things then said she had to go to bed. At the end of the day she's just dipping her toe In the water.

Missed opportunity

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In what way? If she's being distant and giving one word answers not much you can do but do no contact.

She went from iniating contact every day to nothing now. She does reply to me everytime I message her, but it's always me doing the iniating. I really screwed this one up!

Yes you did. Wanna know how? Because you never fucking listen. You ask for advice, but what you're really asking is "can you tell me that I'm doing everything right?"

You'll keep fucking up until you either completely give up on women and become some MGTOW bitter sexless guy, or you get hurt so bad by one particular woman that you start listening and get your shit together - but it'll be twice as hard because you'll fear women even more than you do right now.

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Haha, you guys still falling for OP's naiveness ?

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I really want to get this stuff. I know where I go wrong as well, not leading and escalating. I don't know how to improve on these things I've been on lots of dates but still don't understand it.

Am I just complicating shit when I should just be making a move.

She mentioned last night we should maybe meet up during the holidays.

Gftow

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1. You're too invested in each girl because you don't love yourself enough to be satisfied with being alone; until you're comfortable with being alone and genuinely believe that women are lucky to be a part of the journey that is your life, you'll struggle.

2. You're too scared to take our advice because it's counter-intuitive and goes directly against this Disney mentality that you've adopted. Instead, you post here asking for advice, then ignore absolutely everything that doesn't confirm what you incorrectly assumed to be right.

If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll keep getting the same result; the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

Come the fuck on, you know this stuff.

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I'm gonna kill myself if this thread reaches 16 pages again.

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