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Cool story.
However, you fail to explain any actual personal experiences that you've had and also what level of success that you've had so far over this year and a half to two years.
You saw how long the post was. I can get more detailed.
The level of success I had... How can that be measured? I fucked women regularly. My week was filled with dates, and some days I double and triple booked dates at the same place to cover for flakes.
I did this by:
Talking to women on the bus to and from work.
Talking to women on the train to and from work.
Talking to women on my 2 - 15 minute breaks. (I worked above a mall so all I had to do was go downstairs and walk around stores or sit next to one sitting down)
Talking to women on my 1 hour lunch break. (The mall would always be packed, so I had opportunities in-line for food and when I picked a place to sit to eat.)
It got hard keeping track of the women so I organized them into groups.
1 group was for new numbers. Another was for girls who went on a date with me that I didn't fuck.
Another was for a group that I did fuck.
It wasn't at the point where I was booked all week like that until about 6 months into my routine.
Recently I've been more focused on empire building.
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This is bullshit. You will always need to get the girl one on one if you want to fuck her. Or one on two or three, depending on how many girls you're going to try seducing at the same time. This is why we learn how to isolate and lead in pick up. When girls are in a rush, or not fully available but still seem attracted, then this is why we take the number and hit them up to meet in the future. If she was attracted to you but in a rush, then when you make contact and she actually has some time, then she will likely reciprocate.
I didn't know how to do any of this. Those sort of skills weren't in the 4 books I read.
Double your dating, Paul Jenka's Book, Dale Carnigie's how to win friends and influence people, Vin Dicarlo's escalation ladder.
Double your datings shifted my vision of the dating world and altered my core belief systems which allowed me to have attractive subtext. Paul Jenka's book taught me how to dress and gave me a simple system for approaching women in my day to day life. DC's how to win friends and influence people taught me how to hold interesting conversations by getting people to talk about themselves which made women like me. As well as some other stuff about influencing people. The escalation ladder taught me how to gradually increase the intensity of my touch into sex.
So all I did then was walk about my life feeling empowered while collecting numbers by holding "interesting" conversations (having them talk about themselves), and initiating/escalating touch.
But if I saw a girl who had a friend with her, I couldn't sit there leading her to talk about her life very well with the friend there who would interfere with the process. I could get them to talk about each other which sometimes worked. If the woman was walking in an opposite direction of me I had no reason to stop her to and get her to talk about her life. It was unnatural.
I could go on, but I feel like you should get the picture at this point.
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And have you applied those things and made your closing rate better?
If you knew anything about sales, you'd understand that it a numbers game. The better your product and the better your skills the better your numbers will be. If your product is shit, and you don't have sales skills, the more you will get rejected. The better your product, and the better your sales skills, the more you will close.
Putting it simple, the way you can improve your closing rate with pick up is to work on yourself and your life to increase how attractive you are as a man, and put yourself out there and gain as much contact and experience with trying to pick up and seduce the girls you want to have sex with as possible.
My product is amazing. My skills are phenomenal. The thing is that my closing rate increased because I was able to manage the woman better after I understood how much control I had with conversation.
You see. I make good money and I'm ripped and good looking, extremely intelligent, and knowledgeable, and handy, and can cook, and people depend on me... I could go on you know checking all of those boxes.
But the real power is in the words. Because The way she discovers these aspects could be perceived as a "try hard" who is trying to impress other people with his skill and accomplishments or just a man living his life.
The words you pick is how the story is told, and how she get's involved with the story.
There is a learning curve to what I do specifically, but here's a glimpse.
I say something and before she speaks I read her eye cues. An FBI trick. Everyone's different, so what I do is I throw out a few feelers that elicit a specific eye cue and see where he eyes go to draw a map. This data tells me where she is in the process of creating something, remembering something, feeling something emotional, or visualizing something. Or a combination of those.
This is cool because I can tell when people are lying to me, but that's not the purpose. I use it to see if my other techniques are working properly.
For instance I try to keep the girl experiencing intense emotions by controlling the internal story she tells herself that creates the emotion.
This is tight. I created it from studying emotional theory. 2 factor emotional theory dictates that when someone experiences an emotion, but don't have something specifically to pinpoint the emotion to it will search for something external to attach the emotion to. It's all under the radar linking.
But once an emotion is experienced it releases chemicals into the blood that don't dissipate instantly. This info is gold because I direct women to remember specific emotional stories about their lives and then change the subject. The story dopes her up and then she places that feeling onto me.
So every first meeting of old loves, fun stories with friends, and great life experiences can now be linked to me. I love when women tell me that they have boyfriends because that opens the subject up for me to steal all of his power and emotional influence, plus add my own.
Sorry I began to rant a bit there. But that's just one little thing. It gets really deep when you begin involving cognitive biases, using off handed comments, and allowing them to connect dots in ways you want them to where they don't even realize the idea that they came up with was exactly what I wanted them to think. Other stuff as well.
I'm confident that given enough time I can fuck any woman on this planet, and them being in relationships will only power me up. Princesses of England, actresses, singers. Whoever.
I'm actually starting to study nlp now in-order to increase this skill further. NLP is about "implanting thoughts" I don't know if that's real. What I do is more of guiding them to the thoughts I want them to think which trigger the emotions I want them to feel which they then attach to me.
There are many different types of emotions. Devotion, love, admiration, obsession, addiction. Shit get's deep.
But, what it's given me is a respect and admiration for how different every woman is. I have to be extremely intune with my emotions empathizing with what they feel in order to make sure I'm doing it correctly. The range of emotions a person can feel is amazing, especially when you mix different ones they become these sort of different chemical cocktails.
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During this time I started going out in the day with the intent to pick-up women, and I started going to clubs.
Well what exactly were you doing for the last one and a half to two years?... your story is so muddled and incongruent, I'm not even going to quote the rest of what you've wrote...[/quote]
What's incongruent about it? It must be my fault for not explaining something to you properly.
The shit I'm doing now IS complicated. I couldn't sit here and detail out my methods in a single post, and most people here wouldn't be interested in it either. It's too advanced...there is a learning curve.
They'd label it as mental masturbation before they could realize the power. Which is fine with me. I didn't learn this stuff to share on a forum. It's for me.
Anyway, it's overkill when it comes to simply getting women, but I do sales, and I negotiate multi-thousand dollar deals everyday. Everything I'm describing to you comes into play with how I make my money. So as my skills with women increase my ability to make money increases, and vice verse.
By the way you asked me to share this info. This post is about building your own personal crew and a few tips on how to do it.
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