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Our sexual energy as men is really the most powerful inner motivating resource that we have.
Therefore self-control in this area is very important if we want to actualize ourselves to our highest potential.
In order to do this, we must transmute this energy into something else; such as work, game with women, life mission etc.
Much has been written on this subject and the best place to start learning about this topic is in Napoleon Hill's book Think and Grow Rich.
He wrote a whole chapter on this area called Sex Transmutation.
I would recommend you look up this chapter on Google and read and re read this chapter.
When I first came across this, it was a paradigm shift for me.
Hope this helps.
Love,
Arkive
I have the book but I haven't taken the time to read it through. I recently put it on my to-do list because I'm trying to obtain a sort of dire obsessive relentless motivation, and that book was recommended.
As far as the fapping. I had stopped for 3 months while I was launching a book. It's easier to fap than to go on a date and seduce a woman, but seduction is more fun. Plus I like the way women make me feel when I'm around them and I haven't fapped. So I usually don't when I'm pipe-lining women or in a steady relationship.