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Overall im funny and friendly.
Are you funny? Do the girls laugh at your jokes? Does anyone?
Yes, alot. Most of my humor is kinda strange but most people like it.
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I tend to be beta, but im aware of it and try to block this behaviour. Works often, not always.
I have no idea what that means. There’s no universal definition of alpha or beta in reality, especially the dating/pickup community. It’s just a negative/positive term that’s loosely used.
Overall, there’s nothing here that suggested you’re overly needy or whatever. As in, more invested in the girls than they are in you. . .
You said you’re able to go out on dates, have sex, but have an issue keeping these girls longer-term, right? You want to move to something committed?
I’d say you might just not be making much of a positive impression on them. You need to be able to make these girls feel special and doing things for them that other guys haven’t done. Take them somewhere nice (food, entertainment, beach getaway, etc.) or do something for them that shows you care (cook up something or make some quality cocktails for them at your place) as a few examples. Also, are you able to build a deep emotional connection with these women? Have intimate discussions, etc. After 3+ dates, all of this stuff should begin to materialize.
I make them feel special, im good at that and got told about that.
I often avoid discussions about being a couple now and stuff. but i can talk about intimate things.
Mostly i got emotionally damaged girls, this might be a problem. But i didnt find a normal one that interessted me.
to sum it up.
I get something going. From a ONS to a few month "relationship" which isnt called like that but it behaves like one.
Than i get "the talk" that im a really cool guy, we should stay friends. I dont love you. i got another man.
Just dont know what to do against that
it cant be the girls since its always the same story
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