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1st, dinner is a shitty 1st date. your putting on extra pressure to keep things rolling, this leads to the job interview type questions that murder attraction. Do do those.
Why do men still not get that a dinner first date sucks?
Back when I was hanging with pals who were on my "level", there was a lot of competition. They'd shower girls with flowers and dinners on the first date and I'd chuckle, especially if I liked that girl. They'd get friendzoned that night or the next morning, and I'd take that girl out on a date a week or two later, show up late, and not offer to pay for a thing, while asking them back to my place 15 minutes into the conversation. We'd fuck, and then my friends would say, "how the hell did you do that?".
I've literally seen this text from a girl to a guy:
Him: Hey Sarah, this is Jim. Thanks for giving me your number.
Her: Hey Jim, I gave you my number because you seemed pretty cool. Are you?
Him: well, why don't you let me take you out to dinner and you'll find out?
Her: I don't need a whole dinner, but a drink works.
Worthwhile women cannot stand it when a man likes them too fast. It is such a turnoff I cannot express that enough.
A few months back I heard this conversation at a party:
Girl 1: I made Jim mad at me, because I fooled around with another guy on a road trip. But I'm glad, because it was annoying how much he liked me so fast.
Girl 2: Yup, been there. So annoying.
Girl 1 was a solid 8.5-9. Girl 2 is a 9.5. They are vicious, man. Weakness is simply not tolerated by men they are not emotionally attached to.
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