I'm not going to comment on a rant that you obviously have no experience in...but you're reactionary. Advice to use or say when the bill shows up is plain stupid. If you want a woman to chip in, don't wait for the bill to communicate that. Don't wait until you arrive to communicate that. If you don't want her ordering anything other than the drink you offered, either say it up front or don't take her to that place.

It's simple shit. Don't look for workarounds and magic words for simple shit.

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Second this. His mindset is something else. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO PAY FOR SOMETHING OR CAN'T AFFORD IT DON'T PUT YOURSELF IN THOSE SITUATIONS. There. real. world. advice.

Find another way to show a woman you appreciate her without using your damn wallet.

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Lol. What women are friend zoning guys they're attracted to because the guy spent 20 on dinner?! If you're getting friendzoned.. It's not because you paid for a meal.

Guess what man.. If a chick doesn't like you then asking her to pay her part just gets her to say glad I didn't go out with this broke guy again. If she likes you then if you buy her dinner she'll want to get the bill next time.

Ever thought that the reason you get friendzoned is because of being a lame date?

In terms of your situation OP, I would start trying to make more money and get some sort of career started ASAP, just because it's going to improve your life overall in the long run.

OP needs to cut the 3 first dates a week thing. If he's really doing that, he's throwing away women and in turn throwing away money.

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Guys worrying about gold-diggers when they can't even afford a sandwich. LOL.

Well if you ask a real world legitimate question, it would make it easier.

Seriously who has this problem? Nobody. Well possibly your focusing on stage 2 diabetic's, in that case keep a Clif-Bar in your man bag if the heifer's sugar drops out on you.

At that stage of the game, she's worried about her breath, her makeup, how handy her can of mace is, and a 1000 other things. Eating in front of her new date isn't high on the priority list. It shouldn't be on your's either.

If comfort develops to the point of dining together, let it happen, or dodge the bullet. Be prepared either way.

Quit worrying about the petty stuff, worry about petting the sweaty stuff.

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You have disregarded the advice that pretty much all of us suggested for you.

Just don't go to places that serve food. Now is that bad advice? Surely this advice alone has given your wallet a little break? Is your middle name 'ungrateful' or what? Are you expecting magic line that will make the girl pay for everything???

I am not sure anybody has even suggested you to invite her to your bedroom on the 1st meet..?

Bellend.

This is probably one of few threads that got some nice constructive answers. Get a job you fucking bum

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Lol.

Poor guy. "Women friendzoning a dude who pays for the date". Yea bro. That's exactly why you end up in the friendzone. Keep telling yourself that.

Whatever helps you sleep at night.

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My in depth texting & dating guide.
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How to keep a girl.

First, sarge financially independent women. Make sure to bang them good.

Second, cut off the multi orgasmic supply line.

Third, enjoy the financial perks when these financially independent women want their multiple orgasms back.

Fourth, redistribute the wealth when sarging women who don't have much money but who have tighter pussies.

You gotta have a system to make this lifestyle work. Always provide great service to benefit humankind and facilitate the smoother circulation of money; this way, you are also helping your country's economy and are not just banging pussy.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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Let me take a swing at this, batters up!

I wish I could give you my dick so I could go fuck all these girls for you, But i'll give you some creative ideas so one of us could atleast fuck em, and plus its the pua community we all gotta stick together.

so here we go, you wanna get the pussy without feeding them for it or paying them first, smart move I like your style you feed them after.

Let's take a stroll down memory lane you remember those movies where people, went to the park, and had those little brown baskets, and a cool red checkered blanket. And they would lay it down usually a couple by the lake, and just relax and set all the food up they made at home, and have a swell old time.

Go to the grocery store get picnic food, make it yourself, save money.

There's also this thing called groupalicous bucks (aka groupon . com) you see you go on here and just look at all the crazy shit you can get, including creepy asian massages for half the price. But mostly they have food places, restaurants with deals like spend 10 dollars and you and your date can get 50$ worth of chili cheese dogs and chili to cover your date in.

They even have a cool little app where you can just swipe it across their laser devices and look like a technologically advanced super human from the future.(extra cool points)

Alright time to go back to the future, this was just a way to tell my past self about internet deals and picnics for d ladies



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thank you. alotta guys dont understand that NYC is a kinda different

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You guys act like there's not other guys from NYC that are actually on this forum that would tell you otherwise. Your messed up belief systems will cause you to continuously fail and avoid taking chances.

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1. I am from NYC. I lived there for 18 years so I know something about my hometown. 2. When I move back I will bump this thread and let you know about how it isn't different at all. 3. You can invite a girl back to your crib on the first date if you are the guy that swoops her off her feet.


Change your beliefs and your mindset and your behaviors will follow.

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I've bought lets of girls straight back to my crib, i dont even like to take numbers.
what im saying is its way easier in some of the places where you guys are

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