1) How do you deal with a hot girl that only comes to you for comfort. Example: Girl at work comes whining to me when something is wrong. Do you comfort her? Do you ignore her? Do you change the subject?

2) How do you deal with a hot girl who is too reactive to you? Example: I told her "So you sleep at like 7?" in a reactive, angry tone: "NO I SLEEP AT SIX"
I was just trying to tease her about sleeping so early, I didn't mean anything bad.

1) I mock her in a half joking half serious mannera.

2) What is there to deal with? If her intentions weren't playful I don't talk to her again. Why would I need a person that exhibits those characteristics in my life? lol

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So the issue is about your lack of creating personal boundaries with people.

There's nothing wrong with saying no to someone, especially if you feel you're putting yourself out or aren't getting what you want.

If you don't set boundaries with people they aren't going to set them for you. Stop being her emotional tempon/safety blanket.

1. I usually change topic into something fun and flirty. If it doesn't work, I will just flat out saying "don't you have girlfriends for these stuffs?"

2. If she is not reacting or laughing at your joke, most of the time either she's not that interested, she has terrible humor or the chemistry between you two aren't clicking. Regardless the case, I move on. I don't like wasting time forcing something happen. Yes your game might improve it a little but chances are that requires a lot of time and effort. I rather just invest in girls that show more interest in me and have better chemistry.

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You don't bro.

If you're allowing a woman to come to you and use you whenever she needs to use you without offering anything in exchange (even if its just warmth, friendlness etc.) you will become a doormat and you will be viewed as someone that doesn't deserve respect. A womans attraction is directly tied to how much she respects you.

So this is a bigger issue than what do you do in this scenario. What you really should be asking is " How do I develop the type of character that a woman wouldn't even think about using just for comfort. "

Guys that have there shit together don't even run into these types of issues. Women know who they can pull what with.

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