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My early game has improved to the point where I can often go out and get 7 or more numbers in one afternoon of daygame on my local college campus. The problem I've having now is that sometimes I'll only get a reply from 30% or so of those numbers when I send my feeler text.
I have a feeling that my problem here is that I'm not letting the girls invest enough in the interaction by unpacking their comments about their lives or allowing them to ask questions about my life by dropping in tidbits about myself. Many times, I do 80% of the talking before taking the number. Do you think my diagnosis of my problem is correct?
Yeah I would suggest on making the number more solid, more investment and less talking and getting them to talk.
Even then, it still can be an irrelevant waste of time.
I have had more results just telling them i have to go and just invite them for a drink straight up. No rapport bollocks and get out like the phantom and play the numbers game. Quick time Paul Janka does this:
https://youtu.be/3gZkZS4DuGg?t=3m17s
if you don't have anything much to say and it seems that you are feeling a little desperate to keep the conversation flowing then it just makes sense to get in and get out of the situation. If you are in good form and your chat is pretty good, then go nuts and get to know her better. If you feel like the energy is dwindling, get out of the situation quickly whilst it's still a high point.
Sometimes when a girl is at home, she is thinking about this random moment and it actually makes her invest and get's you a date passively.
I see too many guys make a great 1st impression (high point)
Then try too much to get the conversation flowing and it is semi engaging at best (mid point)
I know which one she will more likely would accept a drink on. (high point obviously)
The other day, I made eye contact with a girl at the bus stop and said hello. She was very receptive and i told her to stand up and twirl around so I could check her out. (This was in front of 8/9 people at the bus stop) - I said I had to go and we should meet up later, she said okay:
I got LMR but my point still stands.