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PostPosted: Sun Dec 06, 2015 5:15 pm 
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My early game has improved to the point where I can often go out and get 7 or more numbers in one afternoon of daygame on my local college campus. The problem I've having now is that sometimes I'll only get a reply from 30% or so of those numbers when I send my feeler text.

I have a feeling that my problem here is that I'm not letting the girls invest enough in the interaction by unpacking their comments about their lives or allowing them to ask questions about my life by dropping in tidbits about myself. Many times, I do 80% of the talking before taking the number. Do you think my diagnosis of my problem is correct?


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 06, 2015 5:23 pm 
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My early game has improved to the point where I can often go out and get 7 or more numbers in one afternoon of daygame on my local college campus. The problem I've having now is that sometimes I'll only get a reply from 30% or so of those numbers when I send my feeler text.

I have a feeling that my problem here is that I'm not letting the girls invest enough in the interaction by unpacking their comments about their lives or allowing them to ask questions about my life by dropping in tidbits about myself. Many times, I do 80% of the talking before taking the number. Do you think my diagnosis of my problem is correct?
Yeah I would suggest on making the number more solid, more investment and less talking and getting them to talk.

Even then, it still can be an irrelevant waste of time.

I have had more results just telling them i have to go and just invite them for a drink straight up. No rapport bollocks and get out like the phantom and play the numbers game. Quick time Paul Janka does this:

https://youtu.be/3gZkZS4DuGg?t=3m17s

if you don't have anything much to say and it seems that you are feeling a little desperate to keep the conversation flowing then it just makes sense to get in and get out of the situation. If you are in good form and your chat is pretty good, then go nuts and get to know her better. If you feel like the energy is dwindling, get out of the situation quickly whilst it's still a high point.

Sometimes when a girl is at home, she is thinking about this random moment and it actually makes her invest and get's you a date passively.

I see too many guys make a great 1st impression (high point)

Then try too much to get the conversation flowing and it is semi engaging at best (mid point)

I know which one she will more likely would accept a drink on. (high point obviously)

The other day, I made eye contact with a girl at the bus stop and said hello. She was very receptive and i told her to stand up and twirl around so I could check her out. (This was in front of 8/9 people at the bus stop) - I said I had to go and we should meet up later, she said okay:

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I got LMR but my point still stands.

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My early game has improved to the point where I can often go out and get 7 or more numbers in one afternoon of daygame on my local college campus. The problem I've having now is that sometimes I'll only get a reply from 30% or so of those numbers when I send my feeler text.

I have a feeling that my problem here is that I'm not letting the girls invest enough in the interaction by unpacking their comments about their lives or allowing them to ask questions about my life by dropping in tidbits about myself. Many times, I do 80% of the talking before taking the number. Do you think my diagnosis of my problem is correct?
Yeah I would suggest on making the number more solid, more investment and less talking and getting them to talk.

Even then, it still can be an irrelevant waste of time.

I have had more results just telling them i have to go and just invite them for a drink straight up. No rapport bollocks and get out like the phantom and play the numbers game. Quick time Paul Janka does this:

https://youtu.be/3gZkZS4DuGg?t=3m17s

if you don't have anything much to say and it seems that you are feeling a little desperate to keep the conversation flowing then it just makes sense to get in and get out of the situation. If you are in good form and your chat is pretty good, then go nuts and get to know her better. If you feel like the energy is dwindling, get out of the situation quickly whilst it's still a high point.

Sometimes when a girl is at home, she is thinking about this random moment and it actually makes her invest and get's you a date passively.

I see too many guys make a great 1st impression (high point)

Then try too much to get the conversation flowing and it is semi engaging at best (mid point)

I know which one she will more likely would accept a drink on. (high point obviously)

The other day, I made eye contact with a girl at the bus stop and said hello. She was very receptive and i told her to stand up and twirl around so I could check her out. (This was in front of 8/9 people at the bus stop) - I said I had to go and we should meet up later, she said okay:

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I got LMR but my point still stands.

You're wearing the same outfit as your avatar hah


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 06, 2015 5:46 pm 
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Just missing the tie ;)

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 07, 2015 4:02 am 
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Be more warm on the initial approach. Yes tell them a tidbit about you. Get a tidbit about them. Form a warm bond with her in a short amount of time so she wants more of that later.


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That's because the number is your goal. Quality interaction should be your goal.

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That's because the number is your goal. Quality interaction should be your goal.
Dick in vagina should be the goal.


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How long are the interactions?

Its all about the quality of the interaction. You getting a number doesn't necessarily mean that you formed a connection, it just means she thought you were interesting and doesn't mind further building with you. Are you going for insta dates? Are you going for closes of any kind?

The guys that don't get replies are usually the guys that are moving too quick too early. Now you can move quicker as you develop in skill, but until you get there its often best to take your time. Stop going for a high volume of number so you can tell your ego " I got 7 numbers in an hour" and focus on getting 2-3 good quality, connection formed numbers that are likely to lead to a close.

The quantity of numbers is for the beginners still getting their feet wet. When I go out now, I'll get 1-2, sometimes 3, because I don't ask for the phone number of a girl that i don't get the feeling that it has potential to go somewhere. I'll talk to 50 women, and only ask for the number of about 4 or 5 of them. The more experience you get the more you'll become aware of situations that are worth your time.

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That's because the number is your goal. Quality interaction should be your goal.
Dick in vagina should be the goal.
Yeah, that's how you get there.

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