When you first meet a girl, what are some things you do to make her feel that connection like you have have known each other forever?

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Personally, what works for me is that I treat her as if Iv known Her forever. Specifically, I use her name a lot, I quickly break boundaries that a "stranger" limits himself to, for example I get touchy and I mess around with her and joke with her as if I'm close enough to her that I know I can get away with it. If I offend her by getting too phsical, I don't backdown but instead reinstate intent (ex: haha I guess I can't control myself around blondes) and then one step back two steps forward physically. If I offend her with my jokes, it's okay as long as I smile and say I'm just fucking with you and then move on like nothing happened.

Be open. Like the poster above suggested actually treat them as if you do know them for a lifetime. It feels really unnatural at first but once you start doing it and see all the good reactions it becomes second nature. People will mostly love you for it anyway.

Personally I don't particularly care for conservative people and those are usually the ones who will be exceedingly reserved and boring, which works well for me since it's easy to weed them out.

So yeah, joke around, tease, fuck with them, throw backhanded compliments or mild insults. Do you, but have fun with it. That's the most important part. If you're enjoying yourself they will too.

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There are alot of things you can do to build comfort with someone you don't know...

With a woman, sharing an emotion is pretty powerful. Share a time with her where you felt some of the feelings we all feel as humans. Women eat this shit up. They feel like they are with a long lost friend.

You can match body language and facial expressions. Known as "matching and mirroring." I used this alot when I was selling cars... You mimic the other person. It creates comfort on a subconscious level.

That should be enough for you honestly

treat them like old friends. You are usually happy to see them and shoot the shit with an old pal. You catch up, go into comfort easier and pretty much pick off where you left off the last time you seen them. This is the mindset.

With old friends you aren't hesistant to touch, joke, or do other things the other posters have said here.

Works for me everytime lol, I usually manage to get a drink out of these bromances or seeing the chick after a long time.

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It starts with the INSTANT you say something to them and your demeanor and body language when doing so. Do this part right by following what some of the guys above are saying and it's all downhill from there.

You have to feel into the person your with. Seduction is all about being selfless, and making sacrificing your anxiety, and fears to connect with a deeper part of someone else. The concept of being willing to walk away works because it involves you being willingness to sacrifice a shot at love so that your standards can be met and your purpose can be fulfilled.

People that are always trying to "gain" or "get" are the least successful at this. Women respond to their approach the way we respond to the approach of someone who comes to us obviously trying to sell something. We put up our guards and listen with plugged ears.

There has to be a proper intent and/or goal in mind. What are you looking to accomplish with the woman you are trying to seduce. Are you just trying to make her love you? What for? What is your why? And your reasoning? Come to and understanding of what you want and why you want it and you'll find it a lot easier to communicate to others; making it easier to obtain.

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