I met this girl that works at the gym
shes 27 im 21
We have been working out for the past few days (ive known her for two weeks) and shes been super flirty with me
I asked her why we haven't gone out yet, and she smiled and said cause you haven't asked me yet. I asked her out she admitted she liked me, and told me how much she loves my energy when im around her.
she also told me she loves my smell, and that we should start hanging out outside more.


I told her ill drop her off home, and as she got in my car I tried kissing her and
she said no, I don't know you well enough yet, and she walked got out and told me shell walk home.

What should I do at this point?

We have a date on Saturday, but is there even a point in going?
We haven't talked ever since (this happened yesterday)

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Of course there's point in going, lol.


If you tell a female "I like you" it roughly translates to "I'd fuck you"
If a female tells you "I like you" it means "I'm intrigued by you". That doesn't mean "I wanna kiss you" nor "I wanna fuck you". Not just yet.

That's why we preach escalation. And that's why escalation is one of the core fundamentals of seduction. Stop trying to skip steps.

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I texted her to see if she would want to come work out with me and.... no reply

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She probably didn't kiss you because she stunk of gym sweat.

Just arrange the date and try again. Take it away from the gym. Stop inviting her to work out with you.

If she doesn't reply to you then she used you for a ride home lol

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Sounds like you were awkward and tried to escalate too quickly. How quickly did you try to kiss her when she got in your car?

Back off for a bit. You've probably lost her, but maybe not. Her actually getting out of the car and walking home is a bad sign.

Also, why are you dating 27 year olds at 21? Most 27 year olds are on the kid bangwagon at that age.

here are my thoughts regarding this :
by order of events
1. don't ask a girl why you not go out ...just ask her out .
2. escalate some sexual energy before you try to kiss her.
3. i see no problem with you trying to kiss her ... i also like kissing girls and i get lots of first kiss lmrs and i am used to it . its all good . she at least knows that you are a men enough to do actions . take it easy.
4. don't text - call .
5. give her few days ... call and schedule a date . its all good .
6 . don't stop gaming girls until its overrr ..
7. i had a girl that i was gaming for 6 months on and off tons of rejections and last month i slept with her . i didn't invest anything in it . just had a lot of fun time with her she didn't want to cave but she did eventually . just don't be there friend ! stay sexual and don't hie the fact you want to fuck them its all good give it time . on and off if you have to
you always want to be gaming 6 girls a time

Lol... this exact same thing happened to me on a date a year or so ago. We both made similar 'textbook' errors, those being skipping from words to lips without any sort of light kino in between, and without really an invitation to kiss. There will be signs, but you (we) both really jumped the gun on the kiss. There was no invitation. No close, intimate, eye contact and lip gazing.

After our first date I kissed her, and this sent her for loops and she wasn't expecting it. Can't remember what she said but it was awkward and didn't make much sense.

Never heard from her again lol.

Depending on your goals, this is not going to be worth the time or energy it will take. If you are thinking long term.. possible marriage with her, then try to make it up. If you're just looking to hook up, well... probably not worth the chase.

Either way the result is the same, let her go and hope she returns.

Going on the date? Lol! It'd be so miraculous if she actually turned up that the pope would have to come and verify it.

the answer to your titled question: Yes

keep trying

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She prob feels a bit awkward by your advance but thats just being a guy and being bold in escalating.

Its fine. Men aggress, women put up boundaries/aka resistance. Don't take it personal it never is, just back up a bit, and try again! (not immediately after).

Remember women want to feel desired, just be respectful and take her seriously if she says she's not ready or whatever and proceed when it feels right.

Definitely ask her out, wtf is wrong with you to even ask such a question?!