Very general question: how do you go through the steps of pursuing a woman while still maintaining a sense of having the superior value, being the catch, her being the pursuer, playing hard-to-get etc... It seems like a constant inherent contradiction, and yet I know successful pursuits pull off both simultaneously. Just can't figure out how. Thanks for any thoughts.

1. Have a confident mindset and frame.
2. Demonstrate attraction to her.
3. Don't be at her beck and call.
4. Don't be afraid to walk away.

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Be a challenge.

Be high status (by having things going for you socially and career wise)


and always have other girls. You have other girls = abundance mindset, makes it much easier to seem like a hot commodity when it is true. If she says no, you can call becky on your phone and arrange a date. Neediness avoided.

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Is the lion superior to the deer?

Does the lion still pursue the deer?

Its a frame you set based on the reoccurring thoughts that you're having in your head. You have to just KNOW you're superior and theres nothing anyone can do to change that. Whether I chase a butterfly or let the butterfly come to me, that doesn't change the fact that I'm far more significant than the butterfly.

Acknowledge your superiority. You're bigger, faster, you have more brain cells, you're more courageous. etc. etc.

If a King marries the lowest woman on the planet what does she become? Queen.

IF a Queen marries a great man that man still doesn't become King, He's just the queens husband.

As a man you have the ability to elevate a woman to her highest position in life. A woman doesn't share this ability. How you see the game will effect the frame you project.

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Your mindset is probably the single most important aspect of your "game". Eddie laid it out for you pretty nicely. Not much I can add to that.

Showing interest doesn't put her in a position of power. Being weak in doing so does. Women sense when you're inviting them in your life to share your already earned happiness, or when you're inviting them to provide the happiness in your life.

Most guys do the latter.

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