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PostPosted: Mon May 04, 2015 1:07 pm 
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I have a two girls right now I see regularly. They have been asking what I do with my time, why I don't hang out with them etc.

I like to work out. And they get upset when I'd rather do that or focus on a hobby of mine. How do you guys respond to these objections?

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PostPosted: Mon May 04, 2015 2:16 pm 
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You're willingness to make this kind of compromises will cause them to demand you to, eventually.

I'm pretty certain you did it at least once. Personally I have a very tight schedule but I never alter it for any girl. And so the one I'm seeing right now respects and understands that, and we have no problem.

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Lol...This is not an insult or anything...but most of your problems can be solved by just following your name...ie being ASSERTIVE. It's just funny when I read your questions and there's that quality usually lacking when that's the name you chose.


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I think my problem is that they repeatedly do it. I put my foot down every time, imagine a kid that annoys the shit out of you until you give in. Lol. Just been lazy. I told her that I wanted to work out and that's that.

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Thats normal man.

A chick always baits her man into putting her first. She doesn't actually want to be first, she does it so she can feel your strength in the moments when you tell her you have other shit going on. Subconsciously it turns her on. You're straight. Keep doing what you do. She just wants to feel your strength. Resistance and tension are all apart of what brings people together. Just like a rubber band snapping back into place. Eventually a chicks going to tug on the rubber band. Don't let her pop it. Let it snap back and everything goes back to normal.

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PostPosted: Tue May 05, 2015 3:15 am 
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Entitlement/habit.

Most guys she's dated, SHE has had to be the one to put the breaks on. He always wants to see her/have sex with her, because even in a relationship, most guys are thirsty as fuck. She legitimately feels like you're not doing what her other guys have done. And she feels like that's because you don't really like her that much. Most girls are very insecure and need to be assured(in various ways), that you actually do like her.

I'll tell you how I handle it, though your milage may vary, as we seem to date very different types of women. I flat out tell them that I have a great time with her, only seeing her twice a week. That I've never found myself feeling the way I do about her, with someone I see every day. It's special and makes me look forward to seeing her. And then I ask her if she's used to seeing most guys a lot more often(almost always a yes). I ask her if she thinks she likes them better(always no). I think time apart just makes us enjoy our time together that much more.

Though another thing to keep in mind, is that I always do this, after having established our relationship as temporary. I always tell her early that we will eventually end. We won't get married, we won't have children. If you like to pretend you two have a potential lifetime together, I'm pretty sure this would blast a hole in that perception.

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