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I've kept it friendly so far. I think i'm just gonna see if she wants to meet for a coffee that's more friendly than meeting for a drink. she will probably make some excuse but at least I tried.
You realize that you are doing the opposite of everything that you should be, don't you? You failed to escalate with the woman and she loses interest in you. Now that she has no interest in you, you are making yourself too available and your friendly approach does nothing but keep you in the same exact place and it will cement her "friendship only" attitude with you. Pump your breaks a bit and give her some time so she doesn't see you in a friendly frame. Give yourself 2 or 3 weeks before you contact her again so when she sees you hopefully some of that attraction is still there and it will respark stronger than your friendship frame that you are currently in.