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PostPosted: Thu Apr 30, 2015 11:06 pm 
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I've kept it friendly so far. I think i'm just gonna see if she wants to meet for a coffee that's more friendly than meeting for a drink. she will probably make some excuse but at least I tried.
You realize that you are doing the opposite of everything that you should be, don't you? You failed to escalate with the woman and she loses interest in you. Now that she has no interest in you, you are making yourself too available and your friendly approach does nothing but keep you in the same exact place and it will cement her "friendship only" attitude with you. Pump your breaks a bit and give her some time so she doesn't see you in a friendly frame. Give yourself 2 or 3 weeks before you contact her again so when she sees you hopefully some of that attraction is still there and it will respark stronger than your friendship frame that you are currently in.

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PostPosted: Fri May 01, 2015 12:20 am 
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I've kept it friendly so far. I think i'm just gonna see if she wants to meet for a coffee that's more friendly than meeting for a drink. she will probably make some excuse but at least I tried.
I'm drunk and this will sound harsh.

You will die alone if you keep this up.

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PostPosted: Fri May 01, 2015 10:06 am 
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What do you suggest I do? I'm still talking to other girls by the way. I wanted to point that out but it doesn't seem to be going anywhere. I don't see anything wrong with keeping in contact with this girl too. I'm not putting all my eggs in one basket like before.

As opposed to contacting her in another 3 weeks I don't see how she is going to see me differently. I haven't spoke to her in 3 weeks since she said she wanted to be friends.


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PostPosted: Fri May 01, 2015 2:43 pm 
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What do you suggest I do?
What an aggravating question that is. Everyone has already told you what to do --- in this thread and the other 10 about the same girl.

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PostPosted: Fri May 01, 2015 2:56 pm 
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Ok so I'll never talk to her again then. It still not really getting me anywhere.


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PostPosted: Fri May 01, 2015 4:38 pm 
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Great. Thread is locked.

Please do not create another thread about this same girl. Re-read an old thread... Why? Because I just searched and I count literally 6 about her where you are asking the same thing - over and over.

You received the same advice in every single one of them.


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