on snapchat. She responded with a naked pic of me (they disappear). She brought this up to me concerned I would be mad that she sent out a pic of me.

then she kinda took it back but the cat was already out of the bag


what the hell?

What the hell is an orbiter? Like a stalker or something?

That said, you should grab her phone and delete any pics of yourself and then say goodbye. That's an incredible breach of trust. Also, yeah... snapchat deletes after a few minutes but there are ways around that. (Not that you should worry since this "orbiter" probably wouldn't want a pic of you saved.)

She could have not told you
She could have responded back flirtatiously
She could have sent a naked picture of HERSELF back

She didn't do any of the above - I thought she handled it perfectly, it was a good way to tell the orbiter to F*** off. Not only that, but she apologized to you for it. She's a keeper

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Agree with Preston87.

I'd be pissed at the fact that a naked picture of me was sent to some randomer who probably took a screenshot of it(That shit doesn't disappear! ) and posted it all over the internet for everyone to see.

Here's a golden line for you, buddy: "It was cold." Enjoy!

Perfect way to handle would have been sending a message saying "don't contact me again." Her way of handling it was idiotic and DID breach trust. If it were the other way around and you did that to her she would be pissed. She shouldn't send something that you trusted her with as a way to tell someone to fuck off.

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I agree that it was great that she didnt respond flirtatiously or anything, but I also agree that it would have been better if she said don't contact me again. Problem is, she DIDNT, and doesn't plan on it. This is an AFC kid who she met in class, she brings up how sad he is quite often.

Another thing is that during the conversation, she said "i kinda replied back by sending him a naked pic of you" but it wasn't really clear what she was saying. So I said yes you should not be sending pics of me and was a bit mad, and she said "wait no, I didn't send a pic of YOU, I was just worried you'd be mad he sent me one, and I would expect you to tell me if the same happened to you"

She clearly tried to take back what she said and she DID send a pic of me. I don't care that she sent it, but I care that she fucking LIED to cover it up two seconds after I appeared mad.

I feel like someone like that who would lie to me for damage control would lie about bigger or smaller stuff too.

Has she tried to explain the logic of this action?

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If that was my girlfriend I would be annoyed that she sent a randomer a picture of me in my birthday suit. That's a breach of trust right there. Anyway, I would expect her to keep her distance from the guy. It's obvious he wants to be more than friends with her especially if he's sending naked pictures of himself to her. That's not cool, not when he's so blatant about it. Different story if he fancies her and doesn't make a move.

Reading through these posts I can only conclude that some guys take themselves a little bit too seriously.


If I were in your shoes I'd get this girl a girlfriend of the year award. The way she handled this situation was superb.

She took a massive shot at that guy's ego by responding with a pic of her naked boyfriend ?That's simply... genius.And hilarious at the same time.

And to make it even greater , she told you about it in a mature way , just in case your way-too-serious ass wouldn't take it well.


I like this girl.

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Here's the thing, she could have asked him first. She could have gotten a random naked pic from the internet. Instead she sent out a naked picture of him that could be saved or even publicized.

I really don't think it's "taking yourself seriously" to not want random strangers to have naked pictures of you.

Yup.

I don't like it either. It's quite egocentric. "My way is right, you should feel the way I feel and not have the freedom to feel the way you do because I think this is the way everyone should feel or they're just too serious."

You did read the part about her sending it over snapchat right ? That's an app that immediately deletes received pics 4-5 seconds after getting them. They cannot be saved / let alone publicized.

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You realize there are ways around that, right?

http://www.uproxx.com/technology/2013/0 ... our-phone/

https://play.google.com/store/apps/deta ... atsavepics

http://www.latimes.com/business/technol ... z2mzpBOrBn

You clearly don't have a very good phone if yours can't take screenshots.