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| tommyboi | PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2012 7:24 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Nov 19, 2012 10:04 am Posts: 2 | | Im pritty new to all this and my main approch will be day game / night game , i work threw the day so i dont get much time to do daygame apart from weekends.
Iv seen a few day game things and alot of them say they do about 50 approches a day !
I was wondering how many people on here do and how sucsesful you are with them?
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| Mr. Assertive | PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2012 7:59 pm | |
| Offline | | Ask a mod for a custom title |  | Joined: Sun Nov 27, 2011 3:23 am Posts: 3488 | | I approach about 5 new faces a day and that adds up to 35 new girls a week. The benefits so far has been less anxiety from meeting new people, more confidence, and overall new opportunities. Success can mean a lot of things. My success criteria changes here and there. For example, today I just wanted to have fun conversations. No number closes. I did just that and I did it because I am currently juggling a few girls and can't really stack on any more. Other times success means for me to number close and set up potential dates all in one go. So eh, who cares, just do it up.
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| Andre2807 | PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2012 8:03 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Thu Jul 14, 2011 3:01 pm Posts: 232 Location: Mossel Bay, South Africa | | If you want to get over approach anxiety, you're doing a good job. Try out the Newbie Mission Sticky. Post your results on there. Come back if you have more questions _________________ "Everything you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it" - Gandhi
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| Little Panda | PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2012 9:06 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sun Mar 22, 2009 4:38 pm Posts: 1430 | | Don't think of it in terms of the number of approaches you do.
You can do 50 approaches per day for 3 months and still be shitty with PU, where your friend could do 3 or 4 approaches for 2 weeks and be ten times better than you.
The number is irrelevant. Try focusing more on the interactions themselves and what you can learn from them. How did the last interaction go? What did she say? At what point were you blown out? Were you blown out at all or did you walk away on your own free will? What do you think you could have improved?
When you reach the final point of 'what could I have improved' - you apply those improvements in your next approach. The next approach fails . . . Same concept. Ask yourself the same questions until you reach the 'what could I have improved' - and you apply it to the following approach.
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| GKS | PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2012 10:55 pm | |
Joined: Thu Jul 08, 2010 11:16 pm Posts: 1166 | | Little Panda isn't wrong but numbers is indeed really important at the initial stage of the game. You need to get your foot in the door first, running number game will improve your confidence and perspective about girls. You soon will realized no matter how hot the girls are, they are still human and they still have all the flaws and insecure human does. And you will get used to rejection and dealing with pressure while building attraction, etc...
But once you become comfortable with approach, do what Little Panda told you. Change it up, experimenting with it, figuring out your strengths and weakness, game smart and strategically instead of just blindly run random games on chicks like the initial stage.
I used to do at least 10 approaches a day. When I heard the voice in my head started whining, I just threw myself into the closest chick nearby, eventually everything would work out. Do go for the most gorgeous ones you can find, do not make excuses and go with 6-7s instead, I find that the fastest way to fix AA.
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