I haven't done daygaming for a while due to work but finally got back into it recently. My game is decent and I can hold my own. Sometimes I do run into chicks with bfs but a few of them are too good of a fuck to pass on. I usually draw the line with married chicks. And on the fence about chicks with bfs depending how she feels about her bf. Sometimes I feel like i'd just be running away from challenge and giving up too soon if I just walked away as soon as I know they have a bf without testing the water first.

With that said, I dont have a lot of experience gaming chicks with legit bfs. I usually just ignore everything she says about her bf and game normally. Or change topic towards something positive about me or our interaction. Earlier today, I made a huge mistake with this one chick. We were talking about the thrill of having sex in public places. And she said "My boyfriend are too good for being that adventurous in public" I thought she meant he is too good of a guy and boring. So I asked and I walked right into that landmine. "Too good as in I could never stay quiet in public places. He always made me scream so loud" Then she went on and on. I cut it short with an inside joke we had earlier. Completely unrelated to her bf. Then left the conversation at that.

How would you guys go about gaming chicks with bfs? Any good tips and routines?

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I completely avoid the boyfriend at all times. If she mentions it I brush it off like he doesn't exist. I am way too focused on the chick to focus on her boyfriend.

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If you ask me, you need to differentiate between the seriousness of the relationship. A serious relationship can be no different than a marriage other than the legal aspects of it. And it could be evolving slowly into engagement / marriage.

I'd simply inquire about how long they've been together and prod a little bit about the seriousness of the relationship. Playing guessing games is pointless.

As a side note: "gaming" girls (whatever the hell that even really means) who are in a serious relationship is either a waste of time for you or just asking for unwanted drama.

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Stop trying to swim up-hill.

The only time that I've fucked girls with bf's, is that I know she is looking to cheat on him that night, so it might as well be me, rather than someone else

But not only pro-actively trying to ruin a relationship not is not cool. But usually, it's a waste time and effort on something you have zero control over.

There are billions of single girls out there

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True. But usually the girl will let you know she is happy if you keep pursuit. Sometimes girls just say that shit just to say it. The boyfriend might not even be real. I always disregard until she is giving me the logistics about their relationship. If she is adamant and loyal to her man, she will let me know. Other times, she lets me know after I kiss closed her or she never even brings him up until I find out she has a boyfriend on her facebook... *oops*


But I do agree that if she is happy, then it would be a fucked up thing to homewreck the shit.

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Yeah, I get that a lot of girls will lie and just say they have a bf when they are single. I am assuming the OP was regarding legit bf's

But I think we have enough experience and that are our BS radar is on point. If she is giving you IOI's or clues that suggest it's BS then plod away

But if she abruptly mentions she has a bf and continues to walk away from you, then it's nothing to 'persist' with

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Ah I misread the OP's post. Your right. Legit boyfriends.....ehhhhhh, lets not tread into these waters OP. If I were you I'd keep yourself on her radar but she wouldn't be a priority, she will be single eventually if things don't work as usually girls go through boyfriends because the dudes they mess with don't meet their Disney alpha expectations. Not all the time so don't hold your breath GKS.

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That's what I'm doing. Ignore everything she said about her bf. Hit her up every once in a while for some qualification and teasing back and forth then I was usually the one that left the conversation. She always responded very quick to my text and double texting. Lot of emoticons. Our convo was always fun and flirty. But if i got too sexual, she would bring up her bf. For now I'll just stick with flirty bantering and stay on her radar while gaming other chicks.

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If you're hearing about the boyfriend in any given timeframe aside from just before getting intimate to just after getting intimate, she's not interested.

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