This is real as it can get.

Awesome guide Instinct. Too long but I've read it all and most probably will read it many times more like I do on the threads of Wolfwood, Hakuna, SexAddict and others whom I have a gut feeling are actually getting laid.

Thank you for sharing. The effort you put into this is undeniable.

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Hey In$tint
If I'd read something like this 5 years back I probably wouldn't have had to learn it the hard way...Love your post. Do you have any other posts? Cheers.

Hi Empath_Will. I'm glad you enjoyed my post. To answer your question I do have a few.

You might find these two interesting:
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getting-fed-up-with-double-standards-vt173815.html

Also, at my signature you can read some of my posts at the wayoftheplayer website.

Peace,

In$tinct

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Excellent Post Brother!

I will be sure to do another post similar to this one.

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Sorry not related to the post... I'm new here, how can I stick this post to my profile?

God damn, I completely forgot about this gem. In fact I was about to write a guide like this because all of the identical questions popping up in this section.

I have no idea why this is not a sticky, but it should be made so immediately.

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Thanks for this guide. There is a lot of info on how to pick up girls, but that much on the phase between dating and getting officially together.

I have one issue. Maybe its just me but Id like to hear your opinion. Suddenly when we were snuggling together in the couch after watching a movie, I asked her about how to protocol would be for farting. This was a subject that she clearly didnt like to talk about, part because of the subject and that we doesnt know eachother good enough. We've been dating for about 3 months. She mentioned that if we would be open about stuff like farting and taking a dump in front of eachother, she was afraid that might kill of attraction between us in the long-term. She told me that she really want it to work between us and didnt want to risk that and that farting was a turn-off her. Not the best timing when I was planning on having sex with her later that evening. So we ended up with some "relationship" guidelines and I tried to laugh it off and change subject. I did never apologize myself and just listened to her to understand what she frlt about this. She still want to see me but I might I have made myself a little bit less sexy...Thoughts?

Re communication:

Always assume the best (of intentions) from your partner. If you can't, this is either an issue of trust you have with yourself, or there's some legitimacy for not trusting her - in which case is the relationship worth pursuing.


Communication with women in theory is pretty straight forward, in practice most guys have great difficulty as they've been acculturated to 'fix', rather than hear needs (but not necessarily meet them).

As said before, women are creatures of the moment - feminine energy can be intense if you try to contain or set perimeters around it. As David Deida wrote, you can be the vessel, or container for it, but its too wild to try and tame and control. Understand that the majority of the time empathy can go a long way with women in meeting their needs; often times they're just wanting to be heard and doing so w/o trying to provide a solution, diagnosis, or prescription to living is all the medicine they're needing in the moment - and helps foster a sense of security w their partner.

Once you learn to hear (and respond) to needs, u'll never hear another criticism or judgment again.

Fart in a bag in the other room.

In my opinion she's 101% right.

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There's no such thing as shit-tests.
How to keep a girl.