I don't know. I'm lost. Now I wish I had tried and flirted a little with her!

Don't worry about it. I hope Arch is right and you can contact her in a few months and things will be different.

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Lol, I feel I fucked up my chances with one of the hottest girls I've ever seen in my life!

It's not over, lol.

Hit the gym, continue your improvements in other areas. You'll see her at the cafe again.

It's important to remember that you really can't "create" attraction over text. Texting is for setting up meets. She either knows she will sleep with you, or she doesn't.

Always text and call new women with a purpose, not to "chat". Like you did with this woman several times. And when a woman texts you at midnight, invite her over on the spot.

I really think you did great work here. It's not just about her, this is also about you.

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To clear things up for the OP, are you saying text her in a couple of months but at the same time you can't create attraction over text?

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Lol,I feel like a lab rat being experimented on by you guys!!!

And Arch, what should I do at the cafe if I see her again. I have a feeling she might ignore me even if she sees me!

Who cares what she does. You are a dominant male who goes for what he wants without apology, and you know there will be other women.



When you begin to not fear outcome, you will begin to create an aura of indifference about you. this is the biggest "attraction creator" there is, and will reap great benefits ranging from in-person interactions to texting.

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Ok, but what specifically should I do if I see her at the cafe?

Say hi. See if she's receptive. If she is, talk to her, flirt a bit in person. See how it goes.

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Ahahaha... this thread was classic.

OP, run away. Far... far away.

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This is ridiculous.

Waiting two months. What the fuck. It's over. She won't have a clue who you are two weeks from now, let alone two months.

Don't know why this is not obvious to more people but seduction doesn't work without actually seducing.

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No one here offers any actual advice regarding 'seducing' (or lots of other things) in any specific manner. Expecting the guy to Google a vague topic and find worthwhile advice there is the opposite of what the guy came here for. Instead of a link to something worth reading or a decent idea thrown at him, he got vague quips. Classic PUA forum style.

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Specific manner? Jack spoon fed the guy. I have an entire specific guide linked in my sig. We explained how getting a woman on a date works. Then he ignored it either way but how much more fucking specific does it need to get?

And what's your contribution to the topic besides the usual nihilism?

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That depends on how fit/attractive the guy is. And it's not "waiting" if you game other women.

Also, I think the OP did good work here. But IMHO, something happened in-between her following him out of the restaurant (and her giving the OP her number), and the final rejection. I think a text or two (or call) was sent that we don't know about.

A girl following you out of an establishment and initiating contact is a strong indicator of initial attraction. Something whittled that away.

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Does it not depend on how fit/attractive the woman is? He'll be long forgotten by then and she'll have met multiple other people.
Also what's the point? If you're gonna hit her up 2 months from now same way you did in the present, why would the outcome differ? You're doing the exact same thing.
No Arch, that's the point. Nothing happened in between. Nothing is what he gave her to work with and nothing is what he got in return.

And yes it's a good indicator of initial attraction. So is a girl making out with you in the club. But text her two days later to come over, and you'll get the same outcome OP did here.
Initial attraction needs to be capitalized on in the moment. If that's not possible for whatever reason, use it to create the connection Jack talks about, and then you'll have a girl much more willing to go out with you.

This girl did nothing exceptional here. She simply made herself approachable, which is what women generally do when they like a guy.

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