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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 8:46 pm 
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Also guys, when flirting over text, is it a good idea to compliment body parts and be a little too sexual?

I've done it on the phone a lot and have a success rate of over 90%. Never over text though. I'm really weak when it comes to text game.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 9:00 pm 
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Ok sorry, I get it now. I'm not sure if she remembers what I told her to get the number.

What do you guys think about something like: I was watching this movie and it reminded me of you...

And then see how she responds if she does?

Or do you guys have better suggestions i could use?

Thanks
One thing that I've learned with women is that if they like you, your attempts at flirting will not push them away unless you are socially retarded. If they aren't interested, any attempts will be rejected even if it's delivered well. Personally, I wouldn't say what you're saying because you met her once for two minutes and unless you can describe a specific scene it will come across as gamey. But like I said, if she does like you she won't care if it's gamey or not.
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Also guys, when flirting over text, is it a good idea to compliment body parts and be a little too sexual?

I've done it on the phone a lot and have a success rate of over 90%. Never over text though. I'm really weak when it comes to text game.
Give an example of how you want to compliment body parts. "I love your legs" is much different than "I love your ass". Where you're at in your communication, you still have to feel her out.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 9:16 pm 
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What do you guys think about something like: I was watching this movie and it reminded me of you...
Too much. You talked for two minutes. No reason why anything should remind you of her. Also you barely know anything about her, which again, enforces that nothing should remind you of her.
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I'm not sure if she remembers what I told her to get the number
Assume attraction. So assume she does. Jack's suggestion is fine.
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Also guys, when flirting over text, is it a good idea to compliment body parts and be a little too sexual?
You'll see me make cheeky comments here and there, but I'll never fully compliment body parts of a woman I haven't slept with. And even then, I don't do it too often.
Women tend to be turned on by the psychological a bit more than they are by the physical. A sexual conversation will be more successful if you depict how you'd wrap your hand around her throat, slam her against the wall and have her legs firmly wrapped around your waist, than it would if you were to talk body parts in isolation.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 9:59 pm 
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And since she didn't answer her phine and always responds my texts 10 hours or so later, how do you guys think I should proceed?

Should I call her again tonight?

Any other suggestions?

Please be specific. I told you guys already I'm so clueless and awkward over text.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 10:23 pm 
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So, I called her last night around 9:00 pm. I was gonna try and flirt on the phone a bit (I'm actually pretty good at that, but not over text) No answer.

Just now, around 9:00 am the next morning she texted: Hey I saw you called me, what's up.

What should I do? It seems to me she hasn't completely lost interest.

What the fuck are you doing calling, lol? She ignored your call, then texted back.


Her: Hey I saw you called, what's up?

You: I'm having drinks and watching Netflix tonight, you're welcome to swing by.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 10:25 pm 
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Ok sorry, I get it now. I'm not sure if she remembers what I told her to get the number.

What do you guys think about something like: I was watching this movie and it reminded me of you...

And then see how she responds if she does?

Or do you guys have better suggestions i could use?

Thanks

You are acting like a pussy.

Her: What's up?
You: I'm having a few drinks and watching Netflix tonight. You're welcome to join.



You are so terrified of losing this girl, that you are hiding your true intentions in weird 12th dimensional chess with only yourself, and you're losing.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 10:26 pm 
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So, I called her last night around 9:00 pm. I was gonna try and flirt on the phone a bit (I'm actually pretty good at that, but not over text) No answer.

Just now, around 9:00 am the next morning she texted: Hey I saw you called me, what's up.

What should I do? It seems to me she hasn't completely lost interest.

What the fuck are you doing calling, lol? She ignored your call, then texted back.


Her: Hey I saw you called, what's up?

You: I'm having drinks and watching Netflix tonight, you're welcome to swing by.
Isn't that a little too direct and implying fucking? Also she's previously said weekdays aren't good for her.


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Too much. You talked for two minutes. No reason why anything should remind you of her. Also you barely know anything about her, which again, enforces that nothing should remind you of her.
Totally agree. That shows way too much investment, too soon.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 10:30 pm 
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Ok sorry, I get it now. I'm not sure if she remembers what I told her to get the number.

What do you guys think about something like: I was watching this movie and it reminded me of you...

And then see how she responds if she does?

Or do you guys have better suggestions i could use?

Thanks

You are acting like a pussy.

Her: What's up?
You: I'm having a few drinks and watching Netflix tonight. You're welcome to join.



You are so terrified of losing this girl, that you are hiding your true intentions in weird 12th dimensional chess with only yourself, and you're losing.
You know what, you're absolutely right, if this girl wasn't a 9 I would've easily and comfortably told her something that direct and it would have worked too!

Fuck it, I'm gonna text her the Netflix thing and see what happens.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 10:34 pm 
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Isn't that a little too direct and implying fucking? Also she's previously said weekdays aren't good for her.
Yes, that's exactly what it is.

This woman followed you out of a fucking store to talk to you, and then texted you at midnight.

Act like a man and just go for it.

Even if she bails, at least you can begin to train yourself to be direct, and to not fear outcome.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 10:57 pm 
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Texted her: "I'm having drinks and watching Netflix tonight, you're welcome to swing by."

See what happens!


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 11:00 pm 
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Damn, this time she didn't take 10 hours! She replied 30 seconds later: No thank you.

Should I say anything?

Should I EVER contact her again or just delete her?


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 11:03 pm 
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You: Cool, I'm good either way.


Then wait a couple months.

Welcome to your transformation from nice-guy doormat, to an indifferent motherfucker who takes action.

I've done this exact scenario, and had the girl hit me up months down the road. Game is not just about what you can get right now, but about planting seeds for the future, and working towards becoming a man of action who is indifferent to women.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 25, 2017 11:16 pm 
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Alright, texted her " Cool, I'm good either way."

Now, how should I text her in a couple of months, assuming I don't hear from her?


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Damn, this time she didn't take 10 hours! She replied 30 seconds later: No thank you.

Should I say anything?

Should I EVER contact her again or just delete her?
Come on, man...don't act surprised. You didn't know the girl and you didn't connect to her. You have to at least connect before an invite like that. "No thank you" is harsh politeness letting you know she isn't interested. Waiting for a later date isn't going to do anything for you. That's not how attraction works. She's not liking you now so waiting for her to like you later is far fetched.

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