I m trying to open up a conversation on SPAM with a girl (working in the same office with me and I got her number somehow randomly in an event before) from a general greeting... below is our conversation while I m not sure how to move to more topics or open a topic later on (say, tomorrow?)

Me: Happy new year and great wishes!

Her: Happy new year

Me: Hope that we don't need to work later this year too <we are used to work until late night, indeed we are in different team working on totally different thing>

Her: Yes hope we don't need to OT any more!

Me: Let's tell the boss "hope we don't need to OT" this Wednesday when he delivering new year gifts. <yes, the boss will deliver new year gift...>

Her: I have not seen him OT before.

Me: Then I ll give him a gift and tell him don't let us OT anymore. <shit, wht s a conversation killer I am...>


And then, two blue ticks I got on the last conversation...

Bros, please give me some advices!!

What are you trying to accomplish?

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My goal is to get a first date with her. Indeed, it seems too early to talk about this right?

She replied me anyway...

I m trying to open up a conversation on SPAM with a girl (working in the same office with me and I got her number somehow randomly in an event before) from a general greeting... below is our conversation while I m not sure how to move to more topics or open a topic later on (say, tomorrow?)

Me: Happy new year and great wishes!

Her: Happy new year

Me: Hope that we don't need to work later this year too <we are used to work until late night, indeed we are in different team working on totally different thing>

Her: Yes hope we don't need to OT any more!

Me: Let's tell the boss "hope we don't need to OT" this Wednesday when he delivering new year gifts. <yes, the boss will deliver new year gift...>

Her: I have not seen him OT before.

Me: Then I ll give him a gift and tell him don't let us OT anymore. <shit, wht s a conversation killer I am...>

Her: You should have a try then!!

If she's your coworker why are you not speaking with her in person?

Texts are used if face to face conversation is not an option.

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Blah, it's always hard when you start indirect.

If you got her number by stating interest in her, escalating now would go much faster.
Or not at all if she wasn't interested back.

What you'd have to do now is speak to her in person, create rapport, state your interest (tell her she seems like an interesting girl and you'd like to know her better) and ask her out somewhere.

Since you started texting, let's see how we can make this conversation more interesting:

"Better idea, you're coming with me. If it goes wrong, at least you'll keep me company. "

or

"Better idea, you do it. Use your female charm and it should be a piece of cake.
If it falls flat I promise to keep you company. "

If the conversation has gone cold, you don't need to send these as it might appear try-hard.
What is important is that you get the idea, for future texts try to flirt, be playful and escalate.

Bros~~ by reading through R/C's texting guidelines, I have continued to text her many rounds until today.

However, strange thing happens today that I need some ideas of what is exactly going on for this move:

The scenario was that a group of people chatting around a table in front of a printer and I was duelling with scanning things and I was also attracted by topic talking about by the group of people.

Suddenly, she walked by the group of people (on the way to sonewhere else) that she had to passed the group of people) that me and her stared at each other for a while.
My reflex action was giving a "What?" face to her and she asked me "what?" directly. I replied "Nothing" and then she turned around and keep going.

Bros, such a chance to start our conversation instead of texting, what shall I do if I faced such situation again or shall I keep the texting game to her?

Thanks Bros!!

At a group setting like that at the office again, point your finger to yourself, then point your finger to her, make a walking motion with your two fingers, then make a coffee cup drinking motion.

Point to your watch, then motion something like "5:30".

If you get a positive reply from her, take her to Starbucks. That coffee smell will work to your advantage. Sit close to her, bump arms, bump legs, hold her hand, look her in the eye with lust, and talk with whatever topics come to mind. Kill some one hour at the coffee shop until it gets dark outside. The moment she presses one of her breast against your arm or elbow, you covertly rub your arm or elbow at her breast.

When you feel her skin getting hot at her arm or hand, say something like, "I know this place with a great view and great food. Let's get dinner. Come. Let's go." Take her straight to a motel or hotel. Choose a place where none of your officemates can see both of you. If you got her comfortable with handholding already at this stage and covertly rubbing your elbow at one of her breasts, you're golden.

Inside the hotel, look her in the eye from left to right and then down to her lips. When she bows her head and looks down raise her chin up and kiss her. If she doesn't bow her head but looks into your eye, kiss her immediately.

If you don't see any of those signs, kiss her hand. If she smiles after you kiss her hand, kiss her lips. Make out and then fuck. Order the food room service after fucking.

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I have to say, and I'm not getting on your case here, but when I read words from a guy that resemble anything like "Indeed" or "shall"...

I don't even want to finish the sentence.

But I give you props for trying and being on this journey.

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