Hey guys, I know, its a classic isnt it?

I have this friend from school, like primary school all though out highschool, we know each other since we were kids practically, and i've always liked her.
But its not that I wanna just fuck her, I truly care for this girl, she is my friend, i like her personality and see her as one of the people that will always be in my life, because she really likes me, and we are great friends.

Being in the community for years, I've tried a few things already. She knows I like her, like i have point blank told her more than once, and just as honestly she has said to me that she's not into me that way, the well known "i just wanna be friends". The thing is I really like her as a person and even if we never go past friends, i've known her long enough to really consider her a good friend and dont want to loose that.

We are both entrepreneurs and have our own companies and stuff, and i feel we respect and admire each other a fair amount. But it has neves escalated.

so recently i broke up with my ex, and started talking more often with her, and my other friends were teasing me about it, like dude come on do something its clear something is going on. so one day i was at a trade show alone in my company's stand, and she came to see me and stayed with me the two of us alone at the stand talking for like 2 hours, and i asked her out, then told her how i really felt, the fact i really like her for who she is, that as years go by and i get to know her better i like her more and more, and that spending one hour with her would be worth more to me than 10000 hours with any other random girl, that all this years knowing her have made me know her well too, and that i truly liked her for who she was, and it didnt work.

We kept talking i apologised a few days later for making things awkward, and then i went for a 3 week vacation.

when i was there we talked a few times, and when i came back i didnt write to her, just buisy with other stuff, but after like a week or two of being back she texts me like "heyyy i havent heard from you since forever! how are you? you have me all forgoten over here" that kind of stuff.

I mean its driving me crazy. I'd never marry at 24 years old but man if there is anyone i know i could consider starting a truly lasting, honest, valuable relationship that could one day become a family, its her. Im crazy about her since i was 10 years old and it's never changed, i just havent been succesful and had to look elsewere. Is there anything further i could do or am i deep in the fucking friend zone? she keeps trying to set me up with friends even, and she has hot friends dont get me wrong but fuck dude i dont want any hot girl, i want this clever beautiful amazing and interesting friend that really likes me bus is not attracted to me for some reason.

Keep in mind im not ken but im not bad looking either, i've had moderate success in this so far, but this girl i just havent been able to do anything about.

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You've been in the community for years and are asking how to get out of the friendzone?

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All this energy into one girl. Ever look around on any given day? You'll see an abundance of women. Focus on that and forget this girl.

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In your entire post, I hardly caught a hint of masculinity. My guess is she isn't into you because you don't give off that vibe. I could be off, not knowing you or her or the dynamic.

Notice how in your tiny stint of unintentional masculine behavior (dropping contact on vacation) you had a brief instance of attraction from her...

Women are primarily attracted to masculinity: Invest in yourself, go work out if you don't, paying attention to the image you put off, flirt with other girls, sounds like you have a nice job already, but if not status/power is generally a turn on. Being caught up and needing 1 person's attention is not a strong masculine trait. That's like, little school girl stuff.

That's why it's free.

Look, you are not her type of guy, no matter what you do or say will change that iam afraid. Keep her as a friend and go see other girls, trust me, there are more girls better then her. Its a waste of time to chase a girl who friendzoned you, go live YOUR life and let girls become a part of it.

Workout, be clean, dress nicely, keep focusing on your company/succes and go out and have a good time, do all this and your life will be a lot easier.

Motivator speech: If you work 24/7 on your company and really get that drive to make a million this year, trust me you will catch her attention eventually.

Best of luck!

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Let her mow your lawn and shovel the snow in your driveway. Girls want to do nice things for men they like as lovers while they ask men on the friendzone to do nice things for them. Next time, when a girl does a nice thing for you, don't stop her generosity AND escalate your compliance tests for her to do more nice things for you.

Her: It's okay. I'll wash the dishes.

You: Thanks babe. Can you do the pans and pots as well?

Her: Sure.

That's how you escape the friendzone in addition to being sexual.

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Bingo. But at that point you won't care about her. We're meant to embrace abundance in all its forms.