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PostPosted: Fri Jan 27, 2017 12:34 am 
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Hi guys yea really wanna ask that Question and what you think about it ? Is it all based on luck or is it a skill that you can actually Improve? Alot of times im doing same Approches and one Girl it works pefect she smilies and enjoys it but on a other Girl even if im doing the exact same thing shes totaly mad and rejects or ignored me.

How can i really improve if it is a skill wich many Guys says and also Belive that there is alot of Skill invovled in this but i also think the luck needs to be on your site what is the best Way to improve your Skill?


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 27, 2017 1:23 am 
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I think it's more confidence, timing, and social intelligence.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 27, 2017 1:48 am 
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hmm okei i think im pretty confident i m8t be a little bit insecure in some areas like my weight and my smoking habbit wich i really hate about myself but at the end i allways think like im not perfect enough to start the Journey because i can allready see alot of thigns i need to fix on myself i forgot alot of times that no one is perfect and i end up being really hard on myself im taking this verry serious and this topic about PUA really causes me sleeples nights im 25 not a Virgin ive had sex with some girls beforebut ive all met them online i never had sex with a girl ive cold approched.

I really wanna get that part of my life fixed because i want to be able to seduce the "one" when she comes along and i feel like im no where i cant really hold a conversetion with a strange person it takes me ages to take the courrage to approach sometimes even one week on working on inner game just because some girl rejcted or ignored me when i tried to approach im trying to solve everthing getting a job going to the gym but i allways find something about myself wich isnt still perfect enough and then il think okei well i cant get a girl if dont get this fixed orand this fixed and it really never has end

When should i start approaching on the street aswell for now im only doing it night clubs and im really strugling with it its so hard to work on where the first step is probaly the hardest the approach and after the approach it can go from everywhere from verry good reacion to harsh rejection what is the best plan to learn this would you guys consider me take a coach or should i try to work on it onmyself? im also having no friends at all almsot all my friends dont wanna talk with me since i startet with this PUA stuff even my wing man dosent wanan come out with me anymore cause i was trying to help him our approaching and stuff

What is the best Way to really improve your skill if u are at start and you dont really know what to do after approaching?


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 27, 2017 2:08 am 
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What is the best Way to really improve your skill if u are at start and you dont really know what to do after approaching?
You'll never hit home runs if you don't pick up the bat. Get out there and start talking to women and learn from each approach without over analyzing it. If you can't figure out what to say next then your goal would be becoming proficient in what to say next.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 27, 2017 11:09 am 
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1/ There is no "one" it's a myth.

2/ The more you practise the "luckier" you get.

3/ Regrets of lost opportunities sting worse than rejection.

4/ "Rejection" means either you miscalibrated or she wasn't for you in the first place.

5/ "Rejection" is an invitation to feel bad, not a law of physics. Throw the invitation to feel bad in the bin.

6/ You're not immortal so action beats inaction everytime you approach that hottie.

7/ Start with baby steps if you're really nervous [ your future self is laid in bed in an old folks home thinking back and wishing he could travel back in time to give you a slap for felling "nervous" anyway.]


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