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PostPosted: Thu Jan 26, 2017 3:49 pm 
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Did you have any kind of intimacy with her?

Sex?
Kiss?
Anything?

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 26, 2017 3:51 pm 
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Text what I suggested

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 26, 2017 4:10 pm 
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no we've not been intimate yet

I'm not sure what kind of game to use.... I know as the guy you gotta push things... she got offended recently when I got slightly sexual and I said in response, oh I guess I misread you...
and I've been sxual with her in the past

I thought about asking her why sex is a taboo subject


I thought being edgy or even offensive but it might come across as too much and stupid
She's political (I live in Dc; it's awful)
don't worry, I'll put in a good word with the Donald Trump Administration for you. you won't be sent back to Mexico... Wilbur Ross is a Hommie....((((she's not not mexican)))

our last correspondence was this

her:(she returned to our city... and at the end of a topic she asks) OK so when do you want to meet up again

Me:sometime soon

Me:you should repent for all the crazy rumba

her:haha rumbear no es pecado :P(my party isn't spicy/hot)

Me:is "catholic lite" like diet coke?
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I was thinking about going to mass the other day, and thought about you

her: haha yeah I need to go

me: I will pray for your tennis game
(she asked me for advise earlier))))
her: funny thanks


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OP, you were advised numerous times to get to the fucking point and ask her to meet.

You're acting afraid. She can smell it, thus her short replies. Your text that says "thinking about you" is horrible. You're terrified to ask her out, but not terrified to spill your guts over text? Every question you have, every "attraction game" technique you employ are nothing but stalll machinations delaying possible rejection for ego protection.

When you stop caring about outcome, results will come.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 26, 2017 5:53 pm 
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I'm going to do that I'm just wondering, how I should go about things(not with arranging a date; she will meet me; that's not the issue)

someone I believe advised me to wait two weeks until she contacts me; assuming that she does


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 26, 2017 6:03 pm 
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Nah. If she's back in your city, send this right now:

"Hey, I'm celebrating good news at my place tonight with drinks and Netflix. You're welcome to join."

If she says no, say "cool, have a good one" the go game other women.

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She's political
Not sexual guys!

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Heywood Jablowme@ LMAO.... that's most women in dc

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"Hey, I'm celebrating good news at my place tonight with drinks and Netflix. You're welcome to join."
that's what all guys say to chicks... and it says i have no hobbies, it's generic,it comes across as sleazy if she's not willing to sleep with me yet....

I'm thinking more on inviting her out to a late a hip cafe/bookshop or something sporty and maybe go to a club afterwords...


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Here's what I'm seeing in this entire thread. Two people sending each other mixed signals and neither one wanting to take the step to make things happen. This is creating an environment that is causing you to both make a bad investment in each other. You're making a bad investment because you are thinking "relationship" with a girl that you don't know. She's making a bad investment because she's, IMO, into you but doesn't want you to present certain aspects of yourself that make you who you are.

What do you think is going to happen if a girl likes you and then you adjust your personality to fit what she LOGICALLY says that she likes?

My final question is, not meaning to sound corny, are you in love with this girl? This question is a trap.

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Jeez man...chick asks you when you want to meet again and you talk about church? Just meet the fuck up.


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I do act myself around her...we just have different personalities, surprisingly it doesn't conflict.. we are just different people but we enjoy the similar passions, have similar interests, and are from similar backgrounds.... we've connected in different ways, so the interest isn't so one dimensional...

Have been on 2-3 dates so this really is too early for any thought on a relationship etc...


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The subject of church was from a prior conversation...I brought back to subjects... I'm going to invite to her to a lounge/bar


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I do act myself around her...we just have different personalities, surprisingly it doesn't conflict.. we are just different people but we enjoy the similar passions, have similar interests, and are from similar backgrounds.... we've connected in different ways, so the interest isn't so one dimensional...

Have been on 2-3 dates so this really is too early for any thought on a relationship etc...
She doesn't want you to talk about sexual things around her and gets offended when you do. That's her not wanting you to be you.

You didn't answer my trap question.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 26, 2017 6:59 pm 
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she does flirt sexually with me but I kind of pushed it to much that day...

what does IMO mean?

I'm interested in her; I'm NOT love with her; In the past i've managed to fuck up dates when it could gone another way completely.... so I'm being insecure and overly analytical and looking for dating advice online


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 26, 2017 7:01 pm 
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You sir are AFRAID to be sexual, because she might actually respond to it. THEN what the fuck are you gonna do?!

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