Well hi , yesterday night I approached a girl ... though not in a bar or cafe it was in work campus though I'm sure we don't work at same place ... it was my first time I gathered enough courage to go and speak :
this happened :
Me : hi
Girl : with an astonished look ... straightaway said I don't talk to strangers !!!

Pride took a hit last night

Suggestion and advices required .

Thanks

Your pride took a hit because a grown ass adult doesn't talk to strangers? Come on man, stop being so frail.

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straight in the ego haha

Come on man help me out

it"s just one girl that rejected you,3 billion girls left,you shouldn't care about that,just move on to the second girl,after few approaches you will naturally feel more relaxed doing it,when i get rejected i laugh at it,say something like aaa flaky,or a well,whatever just don't get but hurt about it

I'm guessing this wasn't in the US!? Sounds like England. I get some legit baffled reactions when I approach girls, lol.

A good neg I just thought of from the top of my head:

You: Do you have a boyfriend or a husband?
Her: Yes.
You: So he was never a stranger when you first met him? So you both met in the womb? You must be fucking your brother then.

I realize this is beta as hell and I would never say it myself unless some woman really pissed me off maybe.

It would be funny to say just to see her shocked reaction.

Obviously, she knows she is full of shit because all people talk to strangers in their lives.

I'm from India my friend

It just means

" The approach was weak"..

But if that caused you to take a hit to the pride then you didn't have much pride to begin with. Stop protecting the little you have an go out and make moves so you can get more.

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Ahhh, maybe that explains it. I read that it's social practice out there. Your approach was probably fine. Just keep going until you find an unusually social girl!

You can learn from this my friend

Rather than thinking, 'Shit... she said that... fml'

Think this: Fuck it. I can do better.


Next girl you speak to, be confident If she says the same or similar, introduce yourself by name and say, 'There, no longer a stranger' and smile as you do so. She might not talk, if so - fuck it. If she does talk, however: its a bonus!

I think what you need to do, is stop worrying about the approach and just go for it and remember to think on your feet. One thing I have noticed, is that girls do enjoy a good bit of whitty banter and quick reactions to their tear downs.

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Was she wearing, problem glasses.