Hi guys,

Haven't written for a long time but been lurking.

Today, I had a conversation with two receptionists at a place I frequent with the intention to ask out one of the younger cuter receptionists. 98% of my conversation was with the non-target, but with the other girl I like listening to everything. I tried not to be too gamey, but threw out a lot of high social value traits that I have (the type of work I do, collecting certain things, etc). At the end, I asked out the target to go to this new place in town. She agreed and wrote down her number. A few hours later this was the text exchange:

Me: Didn't get to confirm on my way out. Let's do Dolce's at 7:00pm Friday?
Her: Hey. I might be meeting a group of friends at that time, but if I don't, I will join.
Me: Cool.
Me: I am out of town for the rest of the week afterwards, however.
Her: Oh okay. We will figure something out.

First, I feel she should have cleared her meeting with friends if she really wanted to meet. Second, she didn't give another time we could meet?

You guys are the experts. Let me know what to do. What do you think is going on? What are my chances now? And given that I will not see her for a while, what should I do?

Thank you.

She's a chick. She probably doesnt "really want to meet." Unless you're Channing Tatum asking a receptionist out, dont think that a chick is gonna be jumping on going out and bending over backwards. Thats just how things are. You talked to another chick, then asked out this chick. You're guy number 150 for the week.
So you barely talk to a chick and ask her out. THEN you go and suggest a specific time which is a Friday fucking night. And you're wondering why she doesnt clear her Friday night?! Dont push a time, ask when she is free and work from there. ESPECIALLY not a Friday night.

Y Your chances are pretty low, as they were from the initial number close. All you can do is either ping her next week to set up the date, or as I'd do, run some game over text first before transitioning to the date.

Thank you. Would appreciate any more advice. What should I do now? Where do I learn text game? Also what do I do when I see her next time?

You learn text game from my sig.

And what you should do is not be ridiculous. Like neo said, you barely spoke a few words with her but expect that she clears her Friday night for you?
Can you imagine how desperate a person has to be to do that?

And never set a first date on the weekend. Monday isn't great either.

Pick Wednesday or Thursday.

You can find more info in my thread.

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You're joking right?

She should of cleared plans she had prior to you inviting her out when she doesn't know anything about you?

And she did suggest a second time to hangout after you told her that you're not going to be around if she doesn't hang out with you now?

Where was their room for her to do any of the things that you thought she should of done?

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