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i don't see how anyone, how anyone who is a thinker, cant agree with me. maybe my idea is lost in translation
attraction, to me, is based on what the person could add to your life/ existence to help you survive / reproduce, subconsciously atleast. sex is subconscious / conscious drive /urge to continue our DNA but we use condoms or pull out alot.
we dont find a 75 year old women attractive because she adds little to our survival, maybe if she were rich
When people normally talk about making decisions and bring up logic, the terms are usually logic vs. emotion. Most people will make statements about how men are logical and women are emotional. When you say that attraction is based on logic, most people who are thinkers are going to say this person is speaking of logic vs. emotion.
The way that you speak, you're in serabellum territory and make every single excuse to keep your theory relevant. A woman with her tubes tied or a man with a vasectomy isn't in it for reproduction. A one night stand isn't going to add to your life or help you survive. Once that's pointed out, you'll say that it's the subconscious choice of reproduction because the conscious choice isn't really making the decision. It all becomes mental masturbation once you start going down that route. You can keep thinking about that all you want, but from perspective of pickup, it's all irrelevant because at that point it's out of your control.
when i said logic i meant understanding whats going on is logic, like you need sense to understand.
emotions and thoughts arent as separated as we think: i think they're calling it emotional intelligence
you made a good comment. even though sex drive comes from a subconscious force, our active conscious/ conscious over powered.
the human will is strong enough to act contrary to its subconscious programming. we all start out with a basic program and its up to the person to hack their minds/ make whatever *upgrade they want. we could call this enlightenment / or becoming more conscious / higher consciousness