[Practical Advice] Make Their Day Simply by Approaching Them



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 04, 2016 6:56 pm 
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Make someone's day by approaching them and talking to them. Try it out and see how effective it is, simple as that.

If knowing in advance that you have the ability to arouse extremely positive feelings in a person just by talking to them and striking up a great interaction, most of your fears and anxieties will go away. In fact you'll feel worse by not utilising this gift you have. Recognise the power you have in you that you, yes you can approach that girl and know deep down "I'm going to make this girls day". You'll literally be buzzing with energy and enthusiasm upon approaching someone instead of fearing the worst and being a nervous wreck.

Assume that every person (this goes for guys too) that they are having a meh day and are waiting for someone to cheer them up and blow their mind. You can be that person. The fact you even bothered to stop them, say hi and talk to them puts you ahead of 99% of other people.

You see people are usually too busy to care about anyone else except themselves. Life is hectic and it's not getting any easier. I always held the mentality that everything in this life is a competition and I believe the average Joe is becoming more aware of this too. This leaves a massive hole in communication I feel. I see that people's face to face encounters are becoming more and more limited due to time constraints in addition to the boom that is digital communication. A text requires fuck all effort and time, a face to face interaction requires investment.

Use this to your advantage, take the time to approach people, even if it's not dating related. There is no substitute for face to face communication, most communication is non-verbal etc etc. Exploit this for the greater good. Life is better when it is spent with people. It's in our nature to want to spend time with people. Just consider this. What gets your adrenaline pumping and energy surging? A positive face to face conversation or a Snapchat or SPAM message? Even if it's nudes or an invite for a 3some, the face to face wins every time.

Make her fucking day dude. Go up to her, say hi and rock her world.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2016 8:15 am 
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This isn't exactly practical advice. Because the two types of readers coming across this post are either the ones who already know, or the newbies that simply cannot identify with what's being said.

We rely on personal experience (or lack there of) far more than we rely on what are other people's experiences. I don't think many dudes will genuinely make a 180 and approach the next girl as if they were the best thing that ever crossed paths with her.

However, I do agree with the premise. You can make someone's day with something as simple as a smile and a hi, or a smile and a thank you.
So while you may not be there approaching a complete stranger, you can get your personal experiences by applying the above to everyone from your store clerk to your buss driver. Try it out. See the difference it can make.

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