You've probably heard this all before but I'm looking for some advice on gaming my ex. This is my ex from over a year ago and I've had a short term one since with another girl that didn't work out. I'm not necessarily saying I want her back, just to see where it goes. She messaged me first, asking why I had deleted her (I hadn't, my crazy ex had) and she tagged me in a funny video. We haven't spoke for like 6 months before this :S.

She seemed really chatty and so was I, she sort of ended the conversation saying she had to go to bed and we should catch up when she's next back in my town (she lives in the near city 30 mins away).

I saw her post about the EU referendum result yesterday and stupidly messaged her about it, in which she didn't reply to my last message (why would I pick politics to start off with grrr). I've liked a photo of hers and tagged her in a similar video to what she has before and she commented some shit like 'hahaha'. We haven't chatted since. So how do I get the ball in my court without making too much of an effort? It's frustrating because I think she wants to meet up but pushing this would get me nowhere as she lives in a different city, I'd be going to her and that's pretty much chasing her.

Thanks for any replies and I can provide more info on the messages if need be.

D.

She is in a different city....are you not getting any girls in your current city that you have to game her ? She already threw it out there that you guys should catch up when she is in the city...so why don't you wait for that to happen and let things flow. Sometimes patience is all you need.


I am curious to your messages.




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You may be right but I think it needs more work.

She was asking me about ex quite abit whilst talking about herself, the messages varied...

"I think I'm bored of being on my own but the stress of having to think about someone else at the min puts me off haha"

"That's what half my problem was back at my mums" when talking about her living in the city now.

"We'll have to have a catch up next time I'm back in ches Vegas"

She sent quite a lot of funny selfies, talking about how big her muscles (havent) got from starting the gym. Most of these were whilst naked in bed but obviously she didnt show anything.

She's back in my town today I think but I'm not sure if I should pursuit it yet.

Thanks.

Why the breakup?

Basically she said she 'wasn't in the right frame of mind for a relationship' and 'I met her at the wrong time in her life'. Said she wasn't well and the doctor had prescribed her some medication etc. Could that all be BS? Could it be 'I just don't wanna be with you'? Probably but I'll get your opinion on that.

A year later and your'e still questioning her honesty.

Why go backward when you can move forward.

We have a winner.

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You're probably right, I kind of just wanted some fun with her, we get on like a house on fire when we're together and thought if the opportunity is there I could tweak it and get the most out of it.