This girl I've been dating for a year is a virgin, and she is clingy as hell, I'm still not sure how I feel about her. If I slept with her then dumped her later she would be a crazy stalker. Reason I haven't slept with her, Christ the girl talks about marriage. Fuck that!

I don't mind sleeping with a girl who only wants something casual but I never find that.

Where's a slut when you need one? All a guy can find are theses Madonna virgin types.

And one day you'll saddle your first unicorn.

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Dating the same person for a year? Bizarre.


Either you're an Avoidant, or you have a scarcity mindset. My guess is its more the later than the former as an Avoidant is less afraid to have little relationship forays without getting too emotionally invested.

I hate relationships and have commitment issues. I always avoid getting committed unless it's someone I really like which I never find.

You don't want sex. You are scared of it. You'll use any excuse to dodge it. And it's never your fault.
Convenient.

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You should be in this forums' hall of fame. I mean shame.

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LOL

You 'll get a bashing for not revealing this kind of "little unimportant information" you have thrown above like a bomb! Next time you post I 'll be waiting for some sort of plot twist

If you are considering "dating for a year" when you have not yet slept with someone, something is wrong my friend. You say you are not getting any younger, I would take it as late twenties reaching 30. What are you doing?

It's typical I never get the girls I want, so get stuck with the ones I hate.

If I actually liked her would have slept with her ages ago

I've slept with girls then split up with them and feel awful after like I used them. If you can live with using girls that's fine I can't.

Bullshit Moose...all bullshit.

You've wrote posts on the girls that you definitely like and you keep saying you're shit at escalating. You say that you're dating other women, but they don't compare to a specific girl so you don't hate these women. You have the worst case of oneitis on the forum that has turned you into a worthless mess. Don't try to protect your ego with us because I'd rather you just be completely honest about your situation and we can take care of the root of your problem. Any result that came of us helping you and you walking away better because of it, we would gain a tremendous amount of respect for you because you did the work. Quit hiding behind bullshit.

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I've never denied I don't have a serious case of Oneitis. I've still not met any girls I like so it's hard to move on. I am shit with escalating if this part of my game was improved I would getting further.

Then do something about it. Delete her number, any pictures, and any social media connections that you have. You have spent over a year fixated on this girl. These connections are reminders that keep you from moving on and making new ones. Start fresh with new girls and quit saying you are shit at escalation because you're not. You're just afraid to do it.

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She won't grow a new face in the meantime. You're just too attached because you haven't fucked her by now that's why you're so reluctant.

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Thanks for the advice. There was periods of months I never spoke to her at all, but she made contact to see how I was doing. I'm not messaging her unless she makes contact first. That's my rule with her!

Why isn't your rule "she's not interested and Ive wasted time talking to her, and posting about her, so Im deleting her from my life?"

She'll hit you up, make some chat, you'll waste more time. Then youll ask her out and she'll just give you an excuse. Then you'll continue not to message her till she writes you first. Do you know how much time youve wasted on this dead end chick? Delete