Hello guys.

I am new into this forum but I have been browsing before.

I am 25 Year old, 155 Lbs male. ( I am not muscular, just average build, no 6 pack etc. ). 5 Ft 9" barefoot.

I usually dress very well and wear nice watch.

In my entire life, I have been rejected by around 850 women.

I had dated with only 3 girls, and I had kissed / touched around 8-9 girls in night club, but cant have sex . Just kissed for many hours and touched each other.

I have only had 1 time sex with a girl which I met in a bar. Weird thing is, she approached me.

I have been accepted to beautifulpeople.com on my 3 rd attempt, so I dont think I am ugly.

I have tried to build muscle at 2015, I worked out around 6-7 months and could not get any results.

So I suspected about my testostorone levels and at April 2016, I go to a clinic and had checked my testostorone levels.

I suspected about this because I always,

I am always tired . I always need 10 hours at sleep minimum. I cant grow proper facial hair. I have facial hair but it looks disguisting .It looks like pubes.

I am 5 Ft 9" 155 Lbs , but despite this, and working out, I have belly! Really weird. I am kind of skinny fat.

And , plus all of things , I always struggle to attarct opposite sex.

So I suspected and go to clinic and had my testostorone levels checked.

It was around 10 in the morning and I was hungry at the time. ( Just eat something before I slept previous day )

And I had not been fapping around 6-7 days. As I know, if you dont masturbate for 6-7 days, your testostorone levels peak. So I also thought about this and applied.

My result came at around 450 Ng / Dl. I checked internet and found that it is quite low. Doctor says it is normal, but it is normal for 70 year old guy!

So in my opinion, the reason I cant get girls is my low testostorone in my opinion. What do you think ?

I cant build muscle

I dont have proper facial hair

I am always tired

I cant get girlfriends

I think the reason is 450 Ng / Dl test levels.

And also, bear in mind that I masturbate every day, so I think usually I walk around at pathetic levels of 300 Ng / Dl in my opinion.

I've read that, in my age, only bottom %5-10 guys have testostorone levels around 400. Mean range is 650 ng / dl, and top %5 is around 1000 Ng / Dl.

So I think this explaines "Alpha men" theory.

What do you think about this ?

Maybe you're Benjamin Button man.

What is that mean ?

How many liters of soda do you drink every day? Did the doctor provided a diagnosis on why you are always tired?

It will be very difficult to workout if you are always tired. You have to fix that first if you want to move forward from a male with below average testosterone into a horny guy with decent fitness.

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How was that beautiful people site? Like all the other dating sites or was it any good?

I had a time when i was like you are describing above. But in my case also there was the problem of lack of sexual drive. So now i dont have any of this problems. And i realised with the help of my friends advise also that :
I was constantly STRESSED at my job at that time and eventhough i worked out i spent also a lot of time WHATCHING TV and had a MESSED HOUSE.
So i started to have a more active day by day life and changed my job.
Oh also you should have a HEALTHY DIET.
SPORT( better high weight and less repetitions 5x5 f.e), NOT FAPPING, LESS STRESS and ofcourse sarging and you'll increase your testosterone levels also more chances to get a woman.
Be positive.

Being unable to get girlfriends have nothing to do with low testosterone levels. That's just all about game. And what is improper facial hair? That's genetics and time. It takes me a good month to fully grow out my beard.

As far as building muscles: that's all diet and right exercises. Are the exercises intense? Are you eating the best quality sources for your body? Are you getting adequate rest? How frequent is your workout?

What the fuck?

No, really. What the fuck?

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Umm... he's worried he has low testosterone and that's affecting his game?

What exercise do you do? How's your diet? Strength training and proper diet can positively affect testosterone levels. Not sure if sleep can, but frankly a lot of that all works together.

If you're not strength training look at something like Stronglifts 5x5 or Starting Strength. If you are, look at those programs anyway to make sure you're doing effective exercises.

Also I honestly don't know if low testosterone causes you to be tired all the time, but other things can as well such as sleep apnea. So you might want to talk about the sleep thing specifically with your doctor. Also might want to get a second opinion if you're right about the testosterone level being low when your doc said it was normal.

As to whether or not any of that will help your game... no idea. You might also want to look into the inner game stuff on this forum, for some reason I get a "lack of confidence" vibe from what you wrote.

Yea, diet and exercise will fix most of the problems you have. There are also supplements. Fish oils and vitamins are a good start. It's so hard in our environment to get all the basic nutrients our body needs to function well. Don't rely on doctors; they know a lot but there is so much free information out there. Most of my medical problems I fixed by reading about them on my own.

http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/01/1 ... naturally/

This should have little effect on your game though, other than the fact that it is affecting you mentally at the moment which will turn everyone off and being tired will make you have low mojo which is bad for gaming.

These factors are effecting your confidence levels more so than they are directly affecting your ability to get women.

There is lots of information on the internet on building testosterone levels.. Heres one article: http://www.anabolicmen.com/increase-gro ... naturally/

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In a way, low testosterone will affect your game in the following manner:

1. You'll have diminished "killer instinct" to f-close. You'll see a lot of newbie guys on here fail to f-close when the girl is ready to fuck because these guys kept on talking instead of taking action. If you get the urge to talk more rather than take action, that's one telltale sign that your testosterone is low.

In times of war, low testosterone guys prefer to negotiate or beg not to be attacked and so they try to talk their way out of a confrontation. On the other hand, high testosterone guys deliver their message through the barrel of the gun or the artillery cannon. That's just the way it is and always will be.

2. You'll fail to f-close because your dick is limp. Yep. Several guys on here get that problem. I used to have that problem before too (during the low points of my career) but not anymore.

3. You'll miss out on many approach invites. I get a lot of approach invites when my dick is hard. I wear tight fitting jeans and accentuate my crotch area. On the other hand, when I'm limp, I don't get that much attention from women.

4. Women are more likely to comply with your compliance tests when your sex drive is high. You'll figure this out by yourself and know what I mean when you have fixed your low testosterone problem.

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Do you think it'd be a good idea to walk around in public with a huge boner in sweatpants? Or would that be too far? Is it illegal by the way?

Laws are jurisdictional in nature which means they vary from place to place. In my place, there are no penal provisions specifically imposing penalties for: a) illegal possession of a hard cock; and b) illegal possession of a wet pussy.

However, my advice and posts on this thread are intended for the OP who seems to be a socially calibrated guy based on his post.

In your case, the way you worded your questions has a creepy vibe to it. You seem like a socially uncalibrated person; hence, my posts on this thread are not intended for you because:

1. You might walk around with a hard on in your sweat pants while stalking a girl on the street that you took fancy on and she's obviously running away from you in fear. You'll get arrested this way for stalking and/or sexual harassment.

2. You might hover inside a kindergarten school. You'll also get invited by campus security or the police for some warning in a place where not too many people are looking.

3. You might try to get in a club that has a very strict dress code. You'll get shooed away or booted out by the bouncer.

4. You might take out your equipment and play with it in McDonald's or Dunkin Donuts.

However, that hard on in your sweat pants might work for you without too much trouble with the law if you are:

a) In a farm with several hundred goats and sheeps. I'm pretty sure the police won't mind your attire and your hard on. Simply take out your equipment, rub some iodized salt and molasses on it, display your enhanced appendage, and in a couple of minutes, a hot sexy bitch will approach and open you with, "baaaah."

b) In a LGBT rally, convention or event.

c) The company president or CEO and are conducting a report on the financial health of the corporation to your corporate board and stockholders. For example, you are Mark Zuckerberg or Jack Ma.

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