I just cant understand how some people can kiss some skank that they barely know.
you are not concerned about herpes? aids? gonorrhea? forget STDs, you are not concerned she has a weird infection that doesn't respond to antibiotics?

I was just thinking, even if I was the most confident guy and girls were all over me and dying to have sex with me, is that what I want? honestly, no. I would probably go all the way to taking off her clothes and then say "sorry, I dont want to catch any diseases"

I understand condoms protect against diseases but what about all the kissing and blow jobs? can I have sex with a girl without kissing her?

Are you not concerned with bird flu? Are you just going to stay safe in your little bubble?

What if you get hit by a bus crossing the street? It's best stay stay indoors I guess...

Sounds like one of those self sabotage excuses to be honest. No worries, more girls for me.

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I am literally creasing up here - you are so funny! Thanks for being awesome.

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Hey MR,

I hear you - at the same time, you have to face the fact that one day you will die. Life is not something you need to hold together trying to not get sick. You are strong - you probably will get sick, you will get better as well.

I once nearly went blind from contracting a strong eye disease whilst touring USA - did it stop me from having fun? NO. Because I know YOUR spirit is stronger then death. If your hiding the whole time from experiencing the wonders of kisses, the wildness of touch your going to miss out on allot of good times you could be having.

If you have never kissed or had sex yet ( even if you have actually ) - don't limit yourself with fear. You can still be pretty skilful and only go bear with women who can show you their sexual history via a test. It's fine to strap up in the mean time.

You are stronger then the fear of death. Truly you are. There is so much tender fun you can enjoy - even if you do get sick, medical science is crazy good now. Mad awesome.

Just be selective, choose clean women and wrap up. Chances are the worst your going to catch is the odd cold.

Stay strong, Stay brave.

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Man, you are totally wrong lol

First, condoms don't really protect against diseases. If you read the package, it says right on there that it doesn't protect against stds.

Second, just because a girl has something doesn't mean that you'll get it. My advice to you would be to keep your immune system strong so you can fight off anything that you might otherwise catch if you weren't so healthy.

The secret to staying healthy is actually being healthy. I wrote an article called "5 Supplements Every Guy Should Be Taking." Check it out and get your hands on all 5 of them. Especially zinc. They will help keep you healthy so you don't have to be so worried about that shit.

Also, make sure you don't smoke cigarettes. Work out so you can sweat out toxins. And eat as clean and natural as you can.

Don't ever eat eggs again, you might get salmonella.

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Do you realise worrying is an unhelpful concept. Its more damaging then doing the thing you are worried about. Put it to bed man and enjoy life.

The same thing when people say "are you worried about a boyfriend beating you up for gaming his girl?"

It's just an excuse to stay stagnant snd justifying inaction. Mental masturbation at its finest.

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I had a huge run in with this scare life tips

1. protect always - NO RAWDAWG | trust your senses
2. social investigate (talk and find out what friends say someone has)
3. (ltr) testing / this isn't above because for me testing is free on college campus BUT its 1 time and just basic testing for HIV is $100+. The testing you would want is a full STI (std new name) and it covers viral and bacterial infections. The test needs to be done ideally twice (with a loyal girl before you can go all no condom BUT even then it's STILL not recommend no protection) but realistically your might want a good job WITH good insurance to cover the times you will go to the doctor to test / (locate labs that do just testing would be an alternative to doctors that have affordable [relatively] test prices)

I am concerned and do look at physical cues, skin, breath, and how she handles the bathroom. I could do a seminar easily on this and it be over an hour.

Take away is use game to befriend a girl's friend and talk about health and things always come out for me... my secret is talk about the health if your not sure.

Okay, this will put your mind at ease my friend..

I obsessed over diseases as well due to my OCD, and researched it inside out, so heres how it is basically...

If you have protected sex, you dont really have to worry, one, herpes from kissing, guess what, you prob already have it, I probably already have it, and so does most the posters here, it can be transmitted through kissing, yes, but for most people it lives in their body, but its dormant, and will just never show symptoms, and if you do, it'll be a little cold sore, yes there are low chances that you could get a break out on your lip, but if that was gonna happen for you, it was probably goin to happen no matter what, you can't avoid kissing forever, i know guys who've kissed 100s of women, my number being quite high also, not one cold sore in their life, they obviously have the 'virus' but its just not showing, cos it normally doesn't.

From blow jobs there IS a small chance you can get gonorrhoea, even smaller chance of chlamydia and syphilis, but these are all low chance, and if you do get these, they can get cleared up, obviously i understand your concern, I was at a party and some girl was boasting about how she fucked 5 guys last week, then was trying to fuck me when we all got drunk, and I was thinking FUCK that, 5 guys in one week, think of what she has, so I understand your pre-caution, it bothers me too, but if it eases your mind, if you stay protected, you're most likely in the clear, if you do get unlucky, go to the clinic and clear it

Yes I am. I got
Chlamidia a few weeks ago which goes
Away with an antibiotic in a week but it is still bad. Not only slutty trashy girls are the ones to watch out for. Any girl could have fucked one player who had something. Wear a condom and don't raw dog unless you both been tested

Ya... I was quite worried as well, esp about HIV - because of it's implications. Most other STIs are relatively minor and can be treated with modern medicine. I've had a fair share of unprotected sex so I started doing some reading too. HIV transmission rates for single contact are extremely low...

http://www.bing.com/search?q=transmissi ... rsationid=

That's funny, because the very first line of small print on my condoms says "Latex condoms reduce the risk of transmitting STIs by providing a barrier against the source of infection."

You may want to switch brands.

I actually did have that happen... was a complete fucking surprise to me. But yeah, one shot and a somewhat painful exam so no biggie. (Well, the tests were expensive too.)
How many girls did you fuck that week?
From what I understand it's fairly hard for a guy to catch HIV from a woman. Frankly genital herpes is the one that scares me... the sores just look painful, and I hate the thought of having to tell any future partners I have it. And sure HIV is worse, but I think Herpes is far easier to catch.