Asks for advice...

Argues with every bit of advice given...

Yessir if it's insultive, you damn sure i will.

If you mean by "rapport" getting to know each other, then i think i did that. In person who spoke for about 7-9min and got to know each other. I just didn't flirt and tease her during our in-person interaction.

So are you saying i should've just setup a date after the first few text?. The reason why i didn't do that is because i thought that would be pushing things to fast, in other words uncalibrated.

So are you saying i should've flirted & teased her during texting? I understand, i made the mistake of not doing it during the in-person interaction but i guess i should've compensated for that in texts, right?

You should always flirt and tease regardles. It's a fun easy way to create connection. But with texts, I usually just do some quick bantering - 3,4 texts - then go on with setting a date or I just use them to touch bases with chicks I haven't seen in a while.

The golden rule is don't text like you're trying to have a long deep intellectual conversation. It should be light, short and fun! Just a mean to get her out with you or stay in touch. Also don't text too much or too often. I would text a girl every few dates - 5 - 6 texts back and forth flirting bantering. Then I suggest a meetup or I just stop respond.

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Insultive?

It may be hard for you to hear cause most of what's said here is critical of you, but a lot of it is true... You're growing and you're trying to learn.

It's petty of you to ask for help and then refute all the suggestions given to you.

Lol @ insultive.

Getting offended over everything is so 2015 dude.

I can tell you you're a fucking idiot with nothing but the best intentions in mind. I said this before, learn to understand the value of what you're being told rather than making it no further than the words themselves.

You fucking idiot.

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Lmao you really wish you were right. Haha you will never be right, anyways piece out, and thanks for not providing anything.

Oh and by the way, there are people here who have gave great advice. So don't try to make yourself seem like you were apart of it lmao.

Um, all right. You're adorable.

Can't imagine why you have women problems.

Exactly i don't i'm the best PUA in this Universe.

Also after reading back on the posts idk why you put yourself in this mess, my comments weren't even directed at you. Your first post i didn't have problem with and was good advice.

The fuck man? Do you want me to lie about it and tell her you're getting her all hot and bothered when she's really wishing you would quit being such a pussy and tell her what you really want? Or do you want to know what you were doing "wrong?"

I'm too busy to be "insulting" people on the internet bro. I was trying to help you (as I know I've helped you in the past) but clearly you get offended a little too easily. Which probably has something to do with the reason you're struggling with girls.

There's a bigger picture problem you might want to look at here. I didn't say you are "pure garbage".... I said there is 0 balls in the way you talk to girls. Which, whether or not you want to see as an insult is up to you... But it's the truth.

You're way too "nice" and "friendly" in the way you talk.

Nowhere are you sexual or dangerous in that conversation. (Which you also have gone on to say yourself) So while you might think I'm just being an asshole, maybe you should take into consideration why you get all defensive and pissed off when someone says something you don't like... Even though it's what you need to hear.

While the answer to your "communication" problem is to stop being such a coward and show more intention, there is a different issue that you need to fix first.... Stop being so offended by everything. Girls can sense that you whine about shit all the time. Knock it off.

Apparently I do it to piss you off...

Read the rest of the comments, son... It's hardly just me giving you a hard time. Any poster here worth his salt is calling you out on your moody PMS bullshit.

Guys who ask for advice and then do nothing but bitch about the advice they're given are quite a commodity here...

You started off alright. I'll give you some notes from where it goes more wrong:

ME: Ohh that sucks, your phone is probably lame lol jk. -----don't include the lol jk.
ME: I can't believe u drive. You looked young when we were talking. How old are you? --- Don't include the "you looked young when we were talking." Also, instead of asking questions use a statement. Like "You looked young when we talked. Tell me how old you are."

HER: lol ! Awe that's sweet of you lol
HER: How old do you think I am?
HER: Or how old did I look? lol

ME: I taught u were 7yrs old! Haha. I took your number just in case someone kidnapped u i could call help for you. ----- Seven is a bit much. If you would have said sixteen it would have been fine. The kidnapped comment was funny. Nothing wrong with that.
ME: Honestly, i think you looked around 19-20. ----- Don't say "honestly" You're a man who's always honest. Saying "You look 19-20." is fine.

HER: Lol! Oh my gosh haha no
HER: I am actually older than 20 lol but that's sweet of you

ME: Your welcome. ----- You're welcome is boring. You could have bantered.
ME: We should hangout, what u doing 2mrw or tonite? ----- Say "We need to hang out soon. Tell me when you're free."
ME: If you're more comfortable talking with me on the phone that's fine. I don't want to push things on you. -----you're coming off as the manipulative nice guy. And she hasn't texted you back yet so wait for her text.
ME: I'm 23 btw. -----Don't text her when she hasn't been responding.

(2 days later,)
ME: Hey, how's it going? ----- No! No! Write something less boring. Say something like, "You've obviously been kidnapped by a gang of ninjas. Hit me up if you're not yet dead."

She would probably have responded "lol" or something lame to which you reply, "I spent the last day taking karate lessons to save your life. You disappoint me, trolley girl."

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@Karlb That is some awesome advice. The part with the kidnapped by ninjas was gold. It was like a perfect setup.

How do you guys do that?? It's such a light, enjoyable discussion with the girl, not flakey or strained like the ones I or the OP of this thread have.

Just skimming it, it's just you talking AT her and asking for a date. You can get away with this if it was super on in person or your interaction had that smooth "I'm taking you out" vibe. If that's not the case, then you're missing qualification. When you text a girl, or call or email or whatever, don't make it seem like you're just stalling for a date invite. Your messages are just I'll fluff for a bit to ask you out. Make her think you're getting to know her and not even thinking about a date. Let her tell you something funny or interesting. Ask questions and qualify. That way when you suggest a date, it comes across like she won you over. You dont need super duper interesting text convos; in fact, even if dont correctly, you come across just as a guy who just wants to fuck her. When you ask a girl out, she should have an idea in her head about why you are interested, beyond her looks. It CAN work without that, but you need to have that frame during the initial interaction.