The 7 year old line was crap.

I meet this girl while i was sitting beside her in the trolley station. I didn't flirt with her or give any indications that of my intentions, i just had normal convo with her. We talked while waiting for the trolley and she eventually tells me she is "somewhat" seeing someone nothing serious. The trolley came so we talked inside the it and when it was her stop to get off, i asked her if she wants to text sometimes and she accepted. We were having good text convo - she was very engaging and interested, but all of sudden now she has stopped responding to me after i asked her if she wants to hangout and i called her a few times but she didn't answer. WTF? 0.d lol

HERE'S OUR TEXT CONVO...

HER: Nice meeting! have a good day at work

ME: It was nice meeting u too! Did u get home safely?

HER: I did !
HER: Now I'm in bed heh
HER: Going to fall sleep soon probably lol
HER: How is work?

ME: Lucky u, i wish i was on the bed! Haha.
ME: Its alright, just boring as hell at this time. You're going to school 2mrw?
ME: By the way, do u go to sdsu?

HER: Yeah I do !
HER: And yes I had classes today
HER: Hope you're day is going good
HER: I feel asleep shortly after I texted you last night heh

ME: Haha i thought u went to grossmont for some reason.
ME: And my day is doing good. I called but u didnt pick up.

HER: I did lol twice , and then I guess I lost signal
HER: I'm at the DMV now

ME: Ohh that sucks, your phone is probably lame lol jk.
ME: I can't believe u drive. You looked young when we were talking. How old are you?

HER: lol ! Awe that's sweet of you lol
HER: How old do you think I am?
HER: Or how old did I look? lol

ME: I taught u were 7yrs old! Haha. I took your number just in case someone kidnapped u i could call help for you.
ME: Honestly, i think you looked around 19-20.

HER: Lol! Oh my gosh haha no
HER: I am actually older than 20 lol but that's sweet of you

ME: Your welcome.
ME: We should hangout, what u doing 2mrw or tonite?
ME: If you're more comfortable talking with me on the phone that's fine. I don't want to push things on you.
ME: I'm 23 btw.

(2 days later,)
ME: Hey, how's it going?

Needy, rambling, over-accomodating, and the seven year old line was creepy.

The game was lost long before you think.

There was nothing to attract her to you. She might have had a "nice time' might have even genuinely enjoyed talking to you, but creating attraction is a totally different creature.

I will admit that I'm not a text expert, or even very good at text, so I can't give much advice on how to create attraction over text - but if you had stimulated some attraction prior to this, made it clear what your intent was when you two were in person, then things may have gone better. Now, you've moved on to inviting her out BEFORE establishing that she's attracted to you, which creates a big gap of uncomfortableness in her mind.

Moses, she dumped you because you come off as an insecure 1 year old golden retriever.

And at least a dog will sometimes listen.

Also, it's "tomorrow", not 2mrw.

There is 0 "balls" in the way you talk to girls. At least not with this one.

Haha look at you, think you're a pro. I'm pretty sure i'm good level, I'm a natural at pulling chicks considering i have i have Social Anxiety Disorder (since age 13yo) which blocks my natural social capabilities with girls. This something you won't understand so won't bother explaining your blind self. If you had what i have you wouldnt be doing nothing don't come here talking about balls. I got balls bigger than your stupidness considering people with S.A.D. (of equal severity to mine) wouldn't even attempt this.

Majikal is right though. The girl knows nothing about your condition and she's going to act accordingly when it comes to responding to you. So while you may have done a lot to overcome your anxiety(congrats), you have to understand that you're anxiety is the equivalent of a sprinter running with a sprung ankle.

Haha look at you, think you're a pro. I'm pretty sure i'm good level, I'm a natural at pulling chicks considering i have i have Social Anxiety Disorder (since age 13yo) which blocks my natural social capabilities with girls. This something you won't understand so won't bother explaining your blind self. If you had what i have you wouldnt be doing nothing don't come here talking about balls. I got balls bigger than your stupidness considering people with S.A.D. (of equal severity to mine) wouldn't even attempt this.

Lol you think it's okay to throw insults at people?....like if you went to play basketball for your first time and someone tells you, "you are pure garbage" you think this is okay?. Obviously that right is right that you arn't a good basketball player but to include insult is unmannered and disrespectful.

This is a learning environment. People should know how to give advice properly without trying to slander.

Lol i'm far from a boring person, been a class clown my entire life. The only reason why i said "i don't want to push things on her" was because she said she was "somewhat" seeing someone before i asked for her number so she said she's not sure on many things. If anything that would, that would make her more comfortable since she's aware about her situation.

Also, i'm not going to be sexual right away on texting if i don't know her yet, that's best way to creep a girl out. I was planning on doing that later as we texts more.