So I was trying for a girl I met in Poland and it seems I could not get her into falling for me since she loved someone else and kept me in friend zone. Meanwhile her friend is interested in me but I'm not sure. I blocked the first girl but I still continue talking to the second girl via texting. How can I attract a girl via texting. Is it even possible in this situation?

Surely you can just ask her out for a drink? Maybe say something like 'I never got to see much of you as x was always there'

Be light and playful over text and have her invest more than you. Like Clocks said, you can invite her for a drink and game her properly there. Texting should only be used for logistical purposes to see her in person.

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Shit man... You wanna know how to pull this off? Quit being a guy who's so pathetic that he has to resort to a "dead lead" like that.

You need to meet more girls.

Ya i realised that it seems I'm just desperate so I have actually decided to not do anything for now and instead play along. Instead I will meet girls nearby and when right time comes will also try to hook up with her.

You're not going to attract anyone that you're not in full communication with. Pick up the phone and call her or ask her to meet you out for a drink and physically escalate.

Have you ever met this girl?

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Yup I have met her and have spent time with her as well. She just now went through a break up and told me she's not into relationship for now. And she's also into Germans and wants a german date

Then she's probably willing come right over to your house to watch an movie and let some of her steam off. I don't think suggesting a date sends the right message. Call her up and suggest she come on over after a little conversation. Only settle for a date if she objects to that.

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That's some good advice... I have tried to set up dates thinking the girl won't want to get right down to it only for them to suggest going back to theirs. I think I will try that approach going forward (suggesting netflix & chill and then taking date if they say no)

Most of them will put up some resistance in the beginning, the same way most chicks will put up a little resistance before sex, but you just have to push on and power through her emotional rhetoric for why she feels uncomfortable coming over to your house on the first date.

Its for the same reason she puts up resistance for sex. " She doesn't want you to think she's a slut". If you can talk a girl out of ASD you can talk a girl into coming over yourself on the first night without going on a date. You almost always have to call them though to rapidly battle their emotions. Text messaging leaves too much time to think. Call her, comfort her, and be persuasive.

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