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Cross De Lena
PostPosted: Mon Jan 11, 2016 10:53 pm 
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My guess is that she really was that busy with school and maybe on purpose didn't open my text because she didn't want me to think that she was ignoring me or something

Anyway, all is ok i guess

No.. Nooo... Noooooo...


You waited 2 days for answer. That's emm 48 hours, takes less than 48 seconds to reply.

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My guess is that she really was that busy with school and maybe on purpose didn't open my text because she didn't want me to think that she was ignoring me or something

Anyway, all is ok i guess

No.. Nooo... Noooooo...


You waited 2 days for answer. That's emm 48 hours, takes less than 48 seconds to reply.
haha ! I must say you are a gullible guy Cross De Lena .
" ... maybe on purpose did not open my text Because she did not want me to think That she was ignoring me or something ." Of course she did this on purpose . She plays the game and you fall right in the traps . Begin to do the same back . So maybe it is she who come here to seek advice ;)
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My guess is that she really was that busy with school and maybe on purpose didn't open my text because she didn't want me to think that she was ignoring me or something

Anyway, all is ok i guess

No.. Nooo... Noooooo...


You waited 2 days for answer. That's emm 48 hours, takes less than 48 seconds to reply.
haha ! I must say you are a gullible guy Cross De Lena .
" ... maybe on purpose did not open my text Because she did not want me to think That she was ignoring me or something ." Of course she did this on purpose . She plays the game and you fall right in the traps . Begin to do the same back . So maybe it is she who come here to seek advice ;)
Sorry, I'm not following, how do you gullible? Haha

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Yo guys, thanks again for all the responses, im learning a lot

I opened up this topic just today and saw the new responses, some things went down on text messages before this, this is what was said:


Me: "Or was that a subtle hint that you would rather meet up at someone's house" (Keep in mind i didn't read you guys responses yet before this conversation so forgive me for the mistakes in this conversation lol)

32 Hours later:

Her: Welll... Actually... Haha no i will let you decide that we're gonna do!
Her: So what are you planning on doing?


2 Hours Later:

Me: Well, sometimes when people have a busy period in their life they would rather meet up just relaxing at someone's house instead of going on some kind of adventure, so if you let me know what the deal is with that i will take that into consideration when deciding on what we're gonna do :wink:

Me: And i got lots of ideas, but i wont reveal them just yet :wink:

Me: But for me it kind of depends on my mood, sometimes i have days where i go out and experience a whole adventure, and sometimes i'd rather just sit at home and relax.

Keep in mind these texts are all not in english but in my own language so translating them some things might seem a bit odd

I sent that message 27 hours ago, she read it and did not respond (again) lol. I guess i should just kind of do the same to her, if she responds i will just wait for a day or two before responding, agreed?

Also don't worry guys, im gaming other girls and have alraedy another girl thats coming over to my house next week, so im not really desperate for this one, but i would like to make it happen and work ofcourse


And thanks again for the advice, im not that experienced with this all so, let me know what you think.
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I responded:

"Don't worry about it, i understand school is important and is a priority, i don't mind!"
Ugh. Translation:

"I understand, Princess! I'll wait around for you forever. May I dispose of that used toilet paper in your hand?"



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"But ofcourse, in order to make up for this, i expect you to come up with the most awesome date ever for us! ;)"
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I send that 2 days ago, she hasn't responded ever since.
I wouldn't respond either if a girl texted me like that.

Text less, care less about the outcome.

Her:

"Let's meet up when I have more time'

You:

"Sounds good."

You: Looks for other women.

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Once I saw that first paragraph I stopped reading. I didn't even bother seeing what it said, and I'm sure she didn't either.

Just move along as it was already suggested.

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Move on dude. Live and learn. Drop all logic and factuality when dealing with women from the standpoint of don't ask them to clarify their subtle hints (or in this case a blatant invite to her couch).
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Me: "Or was that a subtle hint that you would rather meet up at someone's house" (Keep in mind i didn't read you guys responses yet before this conversation so forgive me for the mistakes in this conversation lol)

32 Hours later:

Her: Welll... Actually... Haha no i will let you decide that we're gonna do!
Her: So what are you planning on doing?


2 Hours Later:

Me: Well, sometimes when people have a busy period in their life they would rather meet up just relaxing at someone's house instead of going on some kind of adventure, so if you let me know what the deal is with that i will take that into consideration when deciding on what we're gonna do

Me: And i got lots of ideas, but i wont reveal them just yet

Me: But for me it kind of depends on my mood, sometimes i have days where i go out and experience a whole adventure, and sometimes i'd rather just sit at home and relax.

Christ, relax. You're not defusing a bomb nor are you walking a mind field. Just ask her out already and stop worrying about insignificant details.

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Me: "Or was that a subtle hint that you would rather meet up at someone's house" (Keep in mind i didn't read you guys responses yet before this conversation so forgive me for the mistakes in this conversation lol)

32 Hours later:

Her: Welll... Actually... Haha no i will let you decide that we're gonna do!
Her: So what are you planning on doing?


2 Hours Later:

Me: Well, sometimes when people have a busy period in their life they would rather meet up just relaxing at someone's house instead of going on some kind of adventure, so if you let me know what the deal is with that i will take that into consideration when deciding on what we're gonna do

Me: And i got lots of ideas, but i wont reveal them just yet

Me: But for me it kind of depends on my mood, sometimes i have days where i go out and experience a whole adventure, and sometimes i'd rather just sit at home and relax.

Christ, relax. You're not defusing a bomb nor are you walking a mind field. Just ask her out already and stop worrying about insignificant details.
I think OP kind of a ruined chances with her, at least for a while now.

Also, I'm no expert at texting but your replies are way to long, always keep them short, or shorter than hers. She feels pressured, that's why simple:"Let's meet for a coffee, I'll figure out the rest" is more than enough.

Also, what R.C. wrote, stop worrying about details, texting purpose in the begging is only to arrange dates. Nothing more.

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Ok lol so she just responded (3 days after my text). Im not going to respond, im interested in what you guys think of this, i think she's kind of bullshitting but ok here it goes

Im gonna put our conversation before that below here as well for easy readings:



Me: "Or was that a subtle hint that you would rather meet up at someone's house" (Keep in mind i didn't read you guys responses yet before this conversation so forgive me for the mistakes in this conversation lol)

32 Hours later:

Her: Welll... Actually... Haha no i will let you decide that we're gonna do!
Her: So what are you planning on doing?


2 Hours Later:

Me: Well, sometimes when people have a busy period in their life they would rather meet up just relaxing at someone's house instead of going on some kind of adventure, so if you let me know what the deal is with that i will take that into consideration when deciding on what we're gonna do :wink:

Me: And i got lots of ideas, but i wont reveal them just yet :wink:

Me: But for me it kind of depends on my mood, sometimes i have days where i go out and experience a whole adventure, and sometimes i'd rather just sit at home and relax.



Today: (3 Days after my last message)

Her: Thats sweet from you! But same goes for me, i can enjoy both. Being at home or going out to do something, both is fine with me ! :)

Her: Too bad that you don't want to tell me what you got planned. Im pretty curious to what your ideas are haha, can't you give any hints? :wink:

Her: And im sorry for my super late responses all the time, i'm very busy at the moment :(



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So thats it, curious to see what you guys got to say about this, she;'s taking fucking 3 days to reply while it only takes 30 seconds to say something lol, let me know what you think .. I won't say anything before i fuck it up again haha
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Ok lol so she just responded (3 days after my text). Im not going to respond, im interested in what you guys think of this, i think she's kind of bullshitting but ok here it goes

Im gonna put our conversation before that below here as well for easy readings:



Me: "Or was that a subtle hint that you would rather meet up at someone's house" (Keep in mind i didn't read you guys responses yet before this conversation so forgive me for the mistakes in this conversation lol)

32 Hours later:

Her: Welll... Actually... Haha no i will let you decide that we're gonna do!
Her: So what are you planning on doing?


2 Hours Later:

Me: Well, sometimes when people have a busy period in their life they would rather meet up just relaxing at someone's house instead of going on some kind of adventure, so if you let me know what the deal is with that i will take that into consideration when deciding on what we're gonna do :wink:

Me: And i got lots of ideas, but i wont reveal them just yet :wink:

Me: But for me it kind of depends on my mood, sometimes i have days where i go out and experience a whole adventure, and sometimes i'd rather just sit at home and relax.



Today: (3 Days after my last message)

Her: Thats sweet from you! But same goes for me, i can enjoy both. Being at home or going out to do something, both is fine with me ! :)

Her: Too bad that you don't want to tell me what you got planned. Im pretty curious to what your ideas are haha, can't you give any hints? :wink:

Her: And im sorry for my super late responses all the time, i'm very busy at the moment :(



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So thats it, curious to see what you guys got to say about this, she;'s taking fucking 3 days to reply while it only takes 30 seconds to say something lol, let me know what you think .. I won't say anything before i fuck it up again haha
Ask her out.

Get a yes or no reply.

If yes, go out with her.

If she says she's busy, tell her to propose a date and time when she isn't as busy and you'll TRY to work with her.

If she still doesn't give any specific time or date, IGNORE and game other girls.

She WILL reply again, eventually. When she does,invite her out AGAIN. Repeat the formula again - invite her out, if she can't make it then let her propose a firm date and time. If she doesn't, ignore her response and GAME OTHER GIRLS.
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Me: Well, sometimes when people have a busy period in their life they would rather meet up just relaxing at someone's house instead of going on some kind of adventure, so if you let me know what the deal is with that i will take that into consideration when deciding on what we're gonna do :wink:

You sound like a nervous, afraid sheep.


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Me: And i got lots of ideas, but i wont reveal them just yet :wink:

Me: But for me it kind of depends on my mood, sometimes i have days where i go out and experience a whole adventure, and sometimes i'd rather just sit at home and relax.
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This isn't being mysterious, this is waffling. Be direct and concise with plans.

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So thats it, curious to see what you guys got to say about this, she;'s taking fucking 3 days to reply while it only takes 30 seconds to say something lol, let me know what you think ..
She's stringing you along. Your weak texts turned her off, and you're probably 3rd in line at this point.

Don't text her for a week or two. This often works as a "needy" eraser.

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It doesn't work as a needy eraser, it works like a memory eraser.

This girl will have lost any and all form of interest in 2 weeks if he does nothing.

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Thanks for the advice all,

Haven't said anything yet, been like 24 hours now or something.

Getting a bit of conflicted information here, but here is what i was thinking about saying

Was thinking about just straigth up not responding to her question about if i can "reveal" something on what i planned and just start a new conversation like

"So, i happen to be free next week on saturday, we should meet up"

And thats it, just a simple non-needy text asking her to meet up, then see what she says ?
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"So, i happen to be free next week on saturday, we should meet up. 8:00 PM?"

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