Ok guys this is my first messege in the pua community love being here never thought something great like this existed untill i picked up the game by niel amazing book

But any way shes beutifull short girl with long hair and so cute she seems shy sometimes and she has a boyfriend but acts like shes into me sometimes but then other times not so much and i see (i.o.i.s) from her to me but she seems so loyal to the dude she's with so i dont know if i can get inbetween her and him and have some fun with her but it just started off as i just thought she was cute but then one day we started laughing all the time getting real close at work then my crush started on her and ive been dieng to get next;) to her ever since from now, how do i transition from her being friendly and stuff like play fights you know to going in for a kiss on her when is the right time to do it?

I really don't understand how you guys write like this does this make any sense to you lol do you even realize how hard it is for me to read let alone comprehend the message you're trying to send me not even to mention I also have to deal with your abbreviations to top that off for real dude put some damn effort in your question if you have the expectations of me putting in the effort to answer.


Anyway, there's a difference between girls that are playing hard to get and those who are simply enjoying the attention, or innocently flirting.
Hard to get is supposed to be fun, but also blatantly obvious.

Also, there is no "right time" or "perfect moment".

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Sounds like you simply have a crush on an attached girl who has no intention of breaking it off with her boyfriend.

Find another girl.

If this was;t a work situation I would give you other advice.

Unless you're experienced I'm strongly against dealing with people you work with; especially if this is a job that you plan on keeping. You're getting wrapped up in the chase more so than you are the person and when this is the scenario the lay is never worth it. The picture you have of her in your head is not what she actually is. If she were to leave her boyfriend and decide that she wanted to be with you, this would all become clear to you.

How are you doing with women outside of work?

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You don't. She already sees you as a friend. Don't waste your time. Find a new girl and show your intention from the beginning.

999 posts later, threads like this still exist.

Oneitis. Let it gooooooooo, let it goooooooooooooo bla bla bla something something, let it gooooooooooo, let it gooooooo.

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First, women respect grammar.

Secondly, just ask her to hang out. If she doesn't, move on. If she does, make it fun so she wants to leave her boyfriend.

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Sorry for the bad grammar guys I should have spell checked it before I posted it but anyway, as I was saying so on and so forth.
so I see you guys basically get what I'm saying in the message. So what I'm receiving from most of you is to move on and stuff about the bad grammar once again sorry for that but I want to move on but i feel like i cant intill I at least get a kiss or get close or next to her but maybe I will have to move on she looks me in the eyes all the time as if she wants me and plays around with me as if she does but I think there's just something I have to do to break through and get to the intimate level with her I'm not sure what that is though but in my head i know she is attracted to me i can see all the right signs i think she just dosnt want to say it................ theres gotta be something i could do

When reading this post I just recall what CharlesFinley replied on one of my own posts, I don't remember the subject but I remember him saying "he's too old to play games".

Do what guys told you here to do, move on. Stop trying so hard, she probably senses you want to make a move but can't, it's insecurity and girls abhor that.

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