Been with this girl for about 6 months officially. I did all the techniques to get her..When I first met her she took me out to a concert she was working at. Which was ok, but I really wasn't into the music, then she took me to a small hole in the wall for something to eat, then we went to a bar, some of her friends were there, then ended the night when I got head from her in her car.

Heres the problem I am having, which has been bugging me since I first met her. When she took me to the bar during our first meet, there was this other "guy". Who she now claims is her best friend. There was some tension I saw in his face when he first met me. The dude was literally ignoring her and she chased him around the bar before they were able to finally talk and put whatever they had to rest. I thought the entire interaction was strange. Later I found out that this dude has fucked her before me. Remind you its her "best friend"..

To be honest, her friends and I have nothing in common with me so its quite a bore with them. Also I told her I don't want to be around this "guy" when she is having events such as birthdays and etc. I am wrong for being uncomfortable with this "guy" around her, she has told this dude intimate details about us and etc.. Early on in the relationship she ended the friendship with him, then later regretted it placing all the blame on me, she then broke up with me then crying back to me 2 days later. Which I took her back. She expect us to be best buddies, which will never happen in real life, not going to lie it would be quite awkward just having him around in the same room. I don't want to be anywhere near him. On top of that we have had other regular drama. Now she is moving about 3-4 hour drive to a different state. We all know long distance relationships are pathetic...

Really not sure if I should just end it, and I'm a being beta about the other "guy" I feel like I'm dating both of them..

I don't think it's beta to feel uncomfortable with your potential LTR hanging out with a guy she fucked already, and a guy she fucked that was in her friend zone. Most guys feel uncomfortable in this situation, or would feel uncomfortable for that matter. I can't say what the right course of action would be, but for me, I would definitely let her know that I don't normally like it when girls I'm in a relationship with communicate with guys they had sexual relationships with. No matter how good you are at pick-up, if a girl feels like cheating or is giving the opportunity she will, and if you don't put your foot down she won't know how you feel, she might think you don't really care at all. The key is to tell her you don't like it, but don't bother her about where it ruins your relationship with her, where you have to go through her phone and what not. It's up to her to respect your wishes, and if not, find another girl.

She's being honest with you thus far, she must really like you. I'd give her a shot, but tell her how you feel about her having that other guy around. She'll understand, a lot of the women I dated never like me communicating with my exes or ex-partners either.

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You waited too long to do something about it.

Guys can call it what they want, but if any girl in my life dared have communication with some guy she was fucking in the past she's out. I don't do the "we used to fuck, and now we're friends" thing. And I communicate this from the very beginning if it comes up.

The "friend" is almost always subconsciously trying to sabotage the relationship and thats not helpful to the progression of the relationship. So why have it around?

I say charge her to the game and move on. You've posted other things about her before, its been a lot more than just this little issue.

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I agree man, it seems like they were vying for control in terms of what to do with that best-friend/fuck buddy guy. She seems to have won by having him agree to her terms of allowing him in the middle of it all. If it was me, just like you, I would have told her to get rid of him, or I'm out no if, buts, or maybes.

He still has a chance. He can tell her that he thought it through and that he can't be with her as long as that leech is sucking on his happiness with her. She might still be upset it took him too long, hell he runs the risk of her losing respect for him, but she's also extremely emotional invested so I don't see him taking too much of a risk.

Also, LDR requires a lot out of you as man. I don't recommend it but if you must, if you really like this girl, I won't try and stop you.

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Your right Eddie, happy new year. We've had many discussions before and personal coaching. So I vouch for you completely. Well heres the deal, I did step up initially, and she initially made her choice. Which she ended the friendship and then she restarted the friendship then told me were not compatible, then came back to me crying.

4 months later the "guy" friend is still an issue and has been putting so much pressure on the relationship. It is almost as if she doesn't get it why I'm uncomfortable with it and should accept that BS. Picture me at her birthday and I have to shake hands with the dude who fucked her before me. This bitch is out of her damn mind. Ugh I will discuss this with her later tonight and will update the post on what I decide to do. This should have been ironed out in the beginning. This will be the second and last time I will discuss anything about this 'guy'. I really don't care about them being friends I just don't want to be forced to be around him.

To me in sounds like your decision should already be made.

You have to have a strong heart to succeed in this. You're still young man, and you did not grow up within a culture that teaches men to be men. Sometimes you have to walk and step into the unknown and trust that you'll make something better out of it. This is what strengthens your character and your ability and capacity to be great. I doubt she's the most attractive, the coolest, the most dedicated, or any of the sort n the planet so you can, and you will do better.

Keep us posted either way.

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She wants a bf thats cool being around guys she's fucked. And you want a gf that doesnt make you have to be around guys shes fucked.

Incompatible.

Either you're gonna be unhappy or she is.
Let her find the guy who is fine with what she wants. Likewise, find a girl who is fine with what you want. Why on earth would you even want to force a girl to have the relationship where she cant have what she wants? Personally I'd have let her just keep the friend and walk away. I'm not about forcing someone else to be unhappy just because of my scarcity.

If your trying to play the game then you should definitely end it, if you are looking for something long term that's your decision. It's not a beta thing just a decision on what your goals are.

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Break it off. Long distance doesn't work. If you don't you'll be posting in the relationship sub-section about how you got cheated on 3 months from now.

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Damn this pick up shit is a long hard road
Shit aint easy

Finally broke it off with her and will never plan to contact her again, she's dead to me
Breakups sucks.. found out that she been wanting to get rid of me, she was resenting me all along, she choose her ex boyfriend now "best friend" over me, I tried to break there friendship and she hasn't been the same since, fucking bitch. We had a completely different set of values, and I am for certain because of me I made her a better individual. I really do wish the best for her.

Fuck her, her lost
Now I can refocus my time and energy into myself for a few months then go back into the field and wont repeat the same mistakes that I did with this one.

Keep on pushing!

In the future man, act on the advice given by the people who "know" immediately when you're confused. You would feel a lot better.

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Eddie you would have save me a lot of time because theres been issues about her before..should have listened to you. Bro no love lost... all of these failures will only make me a better individual and a better man in this game.

Theres always going to be a "unknown". The need to see everything all the to the end is for the weak. And you feel "weak" when its all said and done. Sometimes you just have to go with you gut. It'll be comfortable at first, but the reward will be yours. Women are the casino, and just like the casino, the house almost always wins. Because most don't know how to walk away from the table when they've hit big. They have that " just one more bid" spirit that turns into 100 more and before they know it all their winnings aren't around. And they're left "broke" and "weak". Now of course there are rare exceptions. Sometimes you get lucky, but why play with those odds when your intelligent and can flip those winnings into more money with another venture anyway?

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