I cold approached a solid 7 today in the mall, was having a great interaction and out of nowhere, a short fat old woman burst into the set to tell the young hottie that she didn't know what I was telling her, but that she had seen me approach other women that day.

After delivering her comments, the old woman promptly walked off. Instead of denying it with the girl, I owned my actions, and the interaction continued for several more minutes, but I could tell the girl was affected by the intrusion and wasn't willing to give her contact information (prior to the interruption, her subcommunication had been very positive).

Now there are few things that really phase me anymore when it comes to cold approach daygame, I've experienced a wide range of socially uncomfortable situations, but I actually found myself angered by what had happened. By no means do I have a scarcity mentality, but I live in a non-pedestrianized city and it can take awhile to find hot solo girls to approach.

The question that really came to mind was why? Why did this woman feel it was her duty to deliver this passing comment. Was she somehow "protecting" this girl by preventing her from having a possibly pleasurable interaction with a man? I would have more respect for her if she actually stuck around after saying her piece. Her behavior reminded me of people who yell obscenities from the car at a pedestrian as they drive by.

The best reason that comes to mind is that she's upset over her own sexual invisibility, so she does what she can to ensure no one else receives that attention either. It also drove home the point that daygame is still very much outside the mainstream vs night game because we are attempting to pick up girls outside of socially approved venues like bars and clubs. But the hostility towards it still surprises me sometimes.

Anyway, this was a bit of a rant but it was therapeutic and I needed to get it off my chest.

Yeah I hear ya

White knight syndrome pretty is projecting his/her own securities onto you, deep down she wishes someone would approach and rail her the same night. I have no doubt she was probably fat, owns lots of cats and stinks of cabbage.

Keep at it. The pros out weigh the cons. It could be worse, you could be in love with a stripper with no mutual feelings.

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Lol, thanks dragula. Actually, I had the opposite "problem." My first and to this point only lay from daygame was with a stripper (met her in a mall too, pure coincidence) who told me she loved me, but I couldn't return the same feelings to her so she eventually dropped off the radar.

Please PM Nathonder this

and send me pictures

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I've had lesser degrees of white knighting from women in the same demographic as your white knight woman. As in: You're having a normal convo with a girl but the older woman can pick up on the nonverbal sexual intent when passing through and gets white knigthy in her demeanor - you can sort of tell that they are mad that two people are connecting lol. I can see where this white knight's comment threw the interaction off, but usually I've found these situations to make the connection stronger for some reason.

Yes, it was interesting because the interaction didn't immediately end after that. I think we were both a little weirded out by the woman's interjection, but still it's difficult to recover the vibe and get a solid number close after that. I also didn't expect white knighting from a woman. In my head, I had always thought of a white knight as a beta male running nice guy game in attempts to sleuth his way into a woman's pants.

Going forward, I hope it doesn't happen again obviously (and I've done 100s of sets and this is the first time it's happened), but if it does I was actually considering abandoning the interaction with the girl and confronting the cockblock and calling out the bad behavior.

Doesn't really matter why. You can't win them all. In the grand scheme of things her cockblock is really irrelevant.

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Its a cock block bro this happens all the time. Charge that shit to the game and move on.

Theres only one place you fucked up... You didn't address the woman who bursted into the set. You allowed her and her negative energy to dominate the interaction and she accomplished what she set out to. You have to stop her midway through what she's saying. Once that set becomes yours, anybody that enters it becomes like the wandering lion looking to steal the alpha lions pride. Cut her off an address her effectively so she shuts up and moves on.

She doesn't understand that you're bettering yourself and potentially betting them by approaching these different women. She doesn't get approached so why should she care about you more than she does her own objective? When you get upset use that as fuel to communicate and dominate "socially". Don't breath and let it blow over. Because then you will be let deflated and without just the way experienced it.

Once something like that happen the attraction will either increase exponentially or dramatically decrease. Its a universal test of your game. Its a monkey wretch thrown at your way to teach your something. Its a make or break moment. Things can not go back to normal after its over with, it will either grow, or not.

Get back on your game bro. And the next time just take control of the situation. Address and comers an the people you are talking to will respect you ability to lead and the attraction will grow.

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