Hi,

I've been in Sydney making inroads to make this stuff happen for about a month now. I've been trying to find a place to live and find work for a month now. I've managed to find a fool proof means of occupation having stayed in backpacker hostels. Occupation, check.

My plans is to come here and start a fresh in the new year. But..... I'm now in a backpackers ( i'm an Australian citizens) and i've met this Irish lass. It started last night i was smoking my vapour cigg and came upstairs and she followed me back down a corridor, as she was staying 2 doors down from me. She introduced herself yadda, yadda, yadda and wanted to stay awake and i wanted to sleep being it 12.30.

Fast forward today. I saw her, said we should get a drink in a couple of days (having no money till couple of days) and her being stereo typical Irish, had drinks. Went in had some drinks frolicking around on her double bed(private room) and i was escalating. Subtle touches, growing to holding hands (saying something serious looking her eyes). Didn't even get so much as a kiss

Just got back into my room now and long story short.... how do i escalate even further? I tried looking at Vin Di Carlo escalation model and he's talking of taking a next step further is kinda corny. Like smelling her hair, brushing away hair from her face. Yadda, yadda, yadda. Is there some other escalation models i can look at. I plan on asking her for a drink ( in a couple of days when i have money), given she likes a drink.

Any help would be much appreciated.

You don't "subtly touch" when you're in her bed, lol. You don't walk when she urging you to sprint.

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So you were rolling around in the girls bed and were only making subtle touches? At that point the gloves are off.

Did you even try to kiss her?

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Yeah, i did try kiss her twice but she brushed it off. Then another time I remember she took a little dig at me and i grabbed her and fell on my back, as we were both laughing. She was on top and she looked me in the eye and i was waiting at this point for her to hold eye contact for a second but she again wasn't having it and quickly got of me.

Anyway, i could probably go out for a drink with her in a couple of days. Is the any suggestions?

At this point you should have, again, tried for a kiss. You were escalating way too slow. Instead of taking 2 steps forward and 1 step back, you were taking 1 step forward... every 2 hours lol

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Lola, yeah i probably did go a bit slow. I was with her for about 3 hours but i suck at initiating. I don't know how to go about it.

Jesus... 3 hours? Wtf were you thinking?

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The fuck?

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