I met this girl a week ago(She's 18 and I'm 27) and we have been texting quite often and will see eachother next week. She started randomly sexting me which is good I guess but wrote out huge paragraphs and I text her back some stuff as well.

After she got most of it out of her system(told me how and where we were going to do it) She said to me "I can't wait to spend the night with you I can tell we are going to have some naughty sex it's making me wet just thinking about it"

I just don't want to mess up I have general anxiety and in the past have suffered with erection problems. I might take some viagra but even then I'm worried she will be able to tell I'm not as experience as her.

She's 18. How many partners could she have had? Most 18 years old suck in bed. Not only that but most guys they hook-up with suck too.

Don't take viagra. Have a couple of drinks before. A couple. 2 beers. Or cocktails. Or whatever. TWO. Don't go overboard with this, or alcohol + anxiety will give you whiskey dick. You just wanna get into that sweetstop that will relieve some of the anxiety, help you last longer and also let your inhibitions go.

Just how inexperienced are you are 27? if it's that bad I wouldn't even worry about "not messing it up". You need the practice.

PS: Stop jerking off like a wild dog. Most ED problems in young guys, specially those that don't get laid often, is abusing porn and masturbation.
I'd argue stopping permanently, but stop at least until you see this girl.

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Relax lol most girls are even more self conscious. Enjoy yourself. Enjoy her body. Take your time and tease her. Let her desire for you turn you on like your desire for her will turn her on.

I'd go so far as to say, that most guys suck in bed period.

I'm in complete agreement with RC, with the exception of it being beers. Beers make me feel heavy, and slow me up. I'd go a couple shots or vodka drinks.

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She's hyped it up so I want to make a good impression. I've only had one relationship which last 2 years and ended when I was 20 so it feel like I've forgotten almost.

if you're already having anxiety now, I'm willing to bet it creeps up later too, and ED is 100% anxiety related.

she already really set the tone with the sexts and her letting you kno she's wet, it should be easy! if all else fails, you can always go down on her, or vice versa. if i feel like I'm losing wood for any reason, i usually tell her to go down on me and its impossible to NOT get hard when she's blowing you, unless she's bad at it lol.

relax and have fun!

Sounds like you have to build more comfort on your part. Use the drinks to loosen up and get more comfortable just stop drinking once you feel a buzz. Other than that, stop worrying about performance on the first encounter. Most guys suck om the first encounter. She'll be happy as long as you play things smoothly. If you bust too quick, blame it om how good her pussy is. That will boost her ego, make her feel good and link those good feelings to you, which makes her want to come back for more. If you cant get it up, just be honest with it. Tell her you like/need some foreplay to warm things up, most likely she wants foreplay as well. Good luck bro, you got this!

Sounds weird but I fear misionary. When I had the relationship I did it very rarely and found I'd lose my erection on top whether it was in or I was about to put it in. It might be because I have to look in her face(I find it hard looking at peoples faces most of the time) or because I'm really tall with quite a bit of weight on me, it feels awkward.

then fuck her from the back, pull her hair, grab her tits from behind, bite her ear…

come on man dont you watch porn?!? lol….

theres two ways to go about this…..1) slow and sensual, foreplay, etc 2) straight to the mission

in my experience, girls who send sexts want #2. they are ready for it as soon as the door opens. skip the lame convos about her day, skip the awkward vibes. go straight for escalation, grab her hips, rub your hands up the back of her shirt, be aggressive and spin her around, and bend her over, etc….fuck her like a straight animal.

if a girls comfortable enough to send sexts she is very comfortable with getting tossed around. I'm no expert but thats just based on my experiences.

i save the slow and sensual for the shyer ones and ones that i dont get the slutty text vibe from. I've been in a situation where i tried sexting a girl, she responded with "i am NOT into that stuff by the way, blah blah blah" and i still F-closed but i had to take it very slow with lots of foreplay, massage, going down on her and playing.


i think your specific situation calls for option 2 however….the longer you wait the more anxiety will build and fuck things up. gotta just jump into the deep section of the pool and forget about anything else...

hard to look at her face?? is she ugly or something?

man thats one of my favorite things in the world….seeing this cute girl I've been chasing for weeks fuck face on the first time…a mix of pain and pleasure….god that shit is fucking awesome!!! dude you are missing out…..

Girls is like a HB7. I'm so glad she sexted me first, it really helped me become creative. Like she added some rain drop symbol/smiley to look like cum and I told her how I liked that symbol and that she knew she had a load coming. We didn't text all day which is strange since we did some great sexting yesterday so how should I pick it up again? I was thinking of texting her a regular picture of myself with new haircut/shave.

In regards to looking at her face in missionary...I think maybe I'm just worried her looking at my facial expression. Maybe it might seem stressed or anxious. I usually look this way.

Fucks sake dude chill out. Sex faces are sometimes weird.

When are you supposed to meet her?

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She has a child so said she needs to plan in advance. I asked her last week to meet this wednesday and she said she would see if her mom would look after the kid. When I spoke on Tuesday she said her were seems to be busy. So then this Wednesday she started sexting. I'm only available wednesday evenings at the moment so will ask her again this week.

As it's near xmas she will probably flake or something. It's been 2 weeks since we exchanged numbers. I don't know what to talk about on the phone with her because of the age difference plus I don't want to invest to much because of her baggage. She does seem pretty chilled out and always responds to my texts messages.

18 and has a kid?

What a winner, lol.

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I know it's a quality bang though.