Hi guys have been reading for a while, and now i have a question i need your help!

Ok Yesterday i went to my first salsa lesson i´m a complete noob. I loved it and the SPAM was great, I was very easy going i didn´t want to come off as needy or pushy i was just interested in learning and keeeping a good posture (I´m quite big 6´2 280 pounds) I think the girls liked my size because most guys there where smaller.
Anyways it was great I loved it and I´m glad i went there. Plenty of HB which is good for me since i do BJJ and its full of guys and the girls at salsa where nice and sweet not like the BJJ teammates.

Here is my question, the teacher invited me this saturday to a casual dinner at the academy and then a dance at a salsa ballrooom that we will go all together in a bus. At first I said oh thats cool i think i can make it.
But now on second thoughts I´m not sure if i should go this saturday, I really don´t want to fvck it up and maybe is too early for me to go there and I don´t know anyone there, I haven´t DMHV, most girls there know each other and talk i don´t want to fvck it up or seem desperate, i still suck at dancing but on the other hand i would love to go and see how it goes... I´m confused and i would really love to hear your point of view!
Should I go this saturday or is better to wait a bit longer?????
BTW i am kinda desperate for a sexy nice girl, dated an HB8 two months ago we broke up but she was too crazy/psycho for me, we wouldnt have lasted anyways and i have a couple of latinas HB5 that i don´t want to bang because i want to get better quality pvssy!

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Fuck what up?

Go. Socialize. Meet people. And let go of the desperate attitude. It's repelling towards women.

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I'm not sure this is even a date?

Salsa is a hobby where you meet people with the same passion for salsa. Additionally you will find that you don't need to impress people with salsa skills since it's a social dynamic and not a seduction dynamic. They won't care if you're beginner since they know what it's like to be one.

I mean, to be good at salsa or anything, it takes on average 10,000 hours to be a master level at something. You sir are on 1-3 hours. Think about it.

You need to stop using salsa as a way to meet girls and earn the cold approach skill. It's the best bang for your buck.

Do salsa for salsa. You never know you might meet a girl. But to rely on it is not the best way to learn. You will alienate the social circle dynamics if you're just getting oneitus with all the girls that you come across with out any tools for seduction in your Arsenal.

Right now, you don't have the right mindset to even seal the deal with these girls. Very desperate vibe. I predict that you're gonna get drunk and make a move on this girl and she will freak out because of this clash of intentions and will look like a chump in the process.

If you want to find out if it's a date. Ask to meet her one on one privately. No salsa buddies. If you still go for it. Play it a little safe.

You have joined the forum fir the wrong reasons. You want to paint over the cracks. Read my sig thread if you truly care about earning the skill.

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Thanks guys i just want to make the right decission towards going to the dance party on saturday night.
I´m thinking of not going for now just stick to the classes and see where it goes from there!
And i dont have oneitis and im not desperate i am desperate however for a sane HB8-9 that has some interesting things besides the looks going for her...

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Mmm k

Why don't you just go anyway for the social aspect? We could be wrong and you're losing an oppurtunity on some salsa sex with a girl you are desperate for but Not have oneitus with

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there is no date, the teacher asked out of kindness etc...
I am tempted to go but it may be better to hit the next party with higher social value and knowing a bit better what im doing also in terms of the people that will be there and such...

btw i read your post and it´s ok i guess not everything with girls have to do with hard work and such sure hard work helps but there are many other factors there isn´t a magic formula!

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Would you please not get into mental masturbation mode so much?

If anything, a party is an opportunity to build social value.

You're just making excuses for yourself because you're not comfortable with the idea of showing up to a place where you don't really know anyone.

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If there's gonna be girls there.... Just fucking go.