Just go bang her already!

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Had awesome date with her lots of kino cuddling and got a kiss at the end of night..but Time worked against me not able to take it further. I had maybe 10-20minutes I could have tried to do something but she had roommates and friends who were on the way so I went my ways. Trying to follow up quick and finish this. Arghhh....

Blah...worried I might have lost this one. Got flaked on pretty hard for meetup...kind of s triggered a bit of depression as I'm headed back to a cold work week and coming down off the high of the weekend...had such an awesome date so kind of wondering what's going on.

Basically we had set up another meetup with some mutual friends, but she froze me out via text. Then I was talking to our mutual friend who claimed they were having a girls night Insteadt...which could make sense but kind of faulty to not even have the courtesy to let me know her damn self! I think the only good part on my end was that I didn't re-text call or acknowledge flake...I was super tempted to try and reengage with a cold call or some more texts but I figured that would sound clingy so I just let it go.

Need to slap myself silly for caring this much....but damn you have a romantic date and a kiss, not being able to close is pretty disappointing.

Fwiw I do suffer from manic depression so I am prone to this kind of BS...stupid mental games. I had such an awesome weekend and was riding a wave and then totally just crashed and burned last night when I came home empty handed. Time to man the fuck up and focus on other shit.

Act like it didn’t even happen.

Don't let it get to you, flaking is an epidemic way for women to take a last minute dodge, like a golfer taking a mulligan.

What I read is this is like the 3rd "dare" right?

The one the 'guide' says she is to bang you by.

Could have been 'cold feet', or maybe bloating in advance of her "Aunt Flo" arriving.

Who knows, shes a female.

Freezing, gaming, or punishing in any way will result in failure.

If she apologizes, blow it off.

Even bust her bubble a little, "Hey…No problem. It worked out sweet for me, I ended up meeting a few friends that night and one thing led to another… I got home around four-thirty in the morning… we had the best time ever."

Repeat flaking.... no.

When a woman is attracted to a man there is no way she would cancel plans on him for something else, without reason.

She would sleep on his porch to see him again.

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Yea man I was being a total pussy this morning!! Im really glad for some of the things I learned here, I was able to shake off the flake and not look like some needy chump.

Today was awesome. I got a text from the mutual
Homegirl friend asking me to come kick it with them. I thought it was kind of weird because target has still not texted me since last night. So I said fuck it, I'm the boss so I told my workers to hold the fort down and raced back thru two hours of brutal traffic and met up with them. I escalated the second I saw her and things went beautifully. Even though we had the 3rd wheel homegirl we were still all over each other and I noticed her responding wayyy more to when I was kissing her neck and my hands on her.

The story was pretty much that mutual homegirl had a mental breakdown last night, and target stayed with her to talk her through it. Also learned that mutual homegirl doesn't like one of our guy friends who was out that night that led them stay in. Understandable...I played it off super nicely like I wasn't even phased.

It wasn't really a date but I got another good kiss before I left them. They have to shower n finish some things but next meet up its time to. After today's quick lil tease there's no way she can't want more.

i got pretty drunk with my homegirl and pried some insider info out of her lol....basically target really likes me and is attracted to me, but she said some weird shit about how i dont open up enough and show sensitivity? which i thought is super weird because that kind of goes against PUA and amog/dhv stuff, and we have had some damn good convo on our dates that makes me feel like i opened up just fine without being a needy AFC sob story. . i guess target girl said that she doesnt really know me that well enough yet, which explains her shyness. also said that the girl is kind of worried about me being some smooth talker who is just trying to fuck and shes scared im just gonna drop her after i get what i want, so i got the straight warning from my homegirl that i cannot do that LOL...sheesh that kind of goes against what we learn here at PUA camp.

freakin women....

also got some insight, i guess since shes not american she has social anxiety here about going out to all the bars/club events that we do. she said she would rather do other kinds of things with me, so i gotta lay off the invites to come out with our social circles and the drunken VIP party shit we do, and just got 1v1 her.

Ya think?

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i had her 1v1 once and got a nice kiss and got to kiss on her neck and cuddle a bit but her damn roommate and friend came home early so we had to cool it lol…

PLAN isolation!

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Yeah. Plan.

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Yes plans are in works...but no insights on her thoughts on me not opening up and being sensitive? I found that kind of off.....usually PUA teaches that you just ooze confidence which I've been doing...I don't know how to "open up and be sensitive" what the hell does that even mean? Kind of baffled on that one...

When a woman wants a man and lusts after him, the you need not bother to conjure up bullshit opportunities, she will find more in an hour than we you could think of in a century.

Just provide the place.

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If I could quote right now I'd quote where you said you have manic depression and time to focus on other shit, then the next post you say she texted you, you ran out of work and drove thru 2 hours of traffic to hang out with her.

Get your shit together and get to a healthy place. You care too much

true, i was going along that thought path until the insider information made it sound like this girl is more reserved and wants an emotional connection before sex. i feel like i already lost the chance at spontaneous quick escalation one night stand style sex, and now i have to go with the other route which my insider told me, i was told i need to "open up and show sensitivity, take her somewhere different than the club, but fuck her like you just met her at the bar". something along those lines....my homegirl is the shit i really cant believe how real she is...

she literally said the girl and her had a convo about this, target really likes me and is attracted but she said i dont open up enough and havent gotten to know her on a more intimate level. she expressed concern that i am just some player who wants to get a fuck buddy. i cant really blame her for thinking that, before i ever met target, my insider info homegirl knew what i was about because ive known her longer, lately my attitude has been real flirty towards women and it was kind of known in my social circle that i was out with a bunch of different girls. i dont know how much insider homegirl told my target about my past....i hope not too much lol. ive been talking to some really slutty girls in the past few months....

but it was totally worth it....and im glad i did that. im miserable at my business, yall dont understand the shit i have to go through on a daily basis managing a large work crew and hundreds of thousands of dollars. work stresses me the fuck out i only do what i do for the large income and freedom that money gives me on my days off.

i worked so hard this year and have been through so much shit that now im like "fuck work, i need to do what makes me happy"....and what makes me happy is being with this target and kissing her. the two hours of traffic were 110% worth the 30 minutes of cuddling and kissing we had that night....